哪些行为会破坏恋爱关系呢？

　　nvpengyouyaofenshouyaowanliuma，zuonvpengyoumingquetichufenshoushi，henduorenxinzhongdoushihuibuduanyongxianyigewenti：yingdangwanliuma？zheishiyigeguanyuqingganyuguanlijuecedejiongjing。wanliudekenengxingheshijiyiyi，jiqifenshouhouhuibuhuiyouquehan，doulingrenshensi。meigerendeqingkuangbuyiyang，bixujieheshijiqingkuangshensishulv。danshi，zuizhongyaodeshi，buguanzenyang，douxuyaolijieduifangdejuece，weichizouxiangchengshukeguan，guanxinchuliwentidebenzhi，yibiannenggoumaixianggenghaodemingtian。

　　“解决女朋友明确提出分手的窘境”

　　nvpengyouyaofenshouyaowanliuma，zuonvpengyoumingquetichufenshoushi，bushaorendoukunhuobuyihebuzhisuozhong。yifangmian，womenyexuqidaiwanliuzheifenganqing，yizhizouxiaqu；lingyifangmian，yezaiyizijidejianchibuxiezhihuizengjialingyifangyali，shijushibiandegengzao。neiyang，mianduizheiyangdejiongjing，womengairuhexuanzeni？

　　“思考爱情的波动”

　　zuixian，womenyinggaisikaodajiahenvyoujiandeganqingshifoucunzaizhangjiudejiben。zheijibaokuogongtongdegerenaihaohesixiang，yeyoubicishifounengbicizhichihelijie。jiaruzhiyinweiyishidefenqihuobulizhiertichufenshou，neiyangwomenkeyikaolvdaoqinfenwanliu，shizhechuliwenti。

　　“理解对方的挑选”

　　danshi，buguanzenyang，dajiadoubixuyaolijieduifangdetiaoxuan。jiarunvpengyoujianchibuxiefenshou，womenbuyinggaisheqiulingyifangliuyou。poshimeiyourenheyiyi，tazhihuiyinqigengduowentisunhai。yuqishuobawozhumeifang，haiburufangshouyibo，jishuangfangyixieshijianyukongjian，yexukeyirangwomengengqingxidikandaowentidehexin。

　　“重新审视自己的行为和心态”

　　dangnvpengyoumingquetichufenshoushi，womenhaixuyaosikaozijishifouyounaxiedifangzuodebugouhao。zheibingbushiweilekuijiu，gengshiweilefazhanheyouhua。womenyaoshenshizijidegerenxingweihexingwei，tanxunbenshencunzaidebuzu，bingchangshizuochujijizhudongdegenggai。weiyouruci，cainenggenghaodeyingduifenshoudeshiji，bulunshiwanliuhaishifangshou，jiuhuibiandegengjiazixingengjiachengshu。

　　“保持理智和理智”

　　zaijingyingganqingwentideshihou，womenyinggaibaochilizhihelizhi。fenshoudekuchukenenghuishidajiaqingxubengkui，danshiwomenxuyaojinliangjianshaoqingxuhuaxingweibiaoxianyanyu。zhuyaobaokuobuyaopinfantongdianhua、faxiaoxihuozhedaojiuchanbuqinglingyifang。pingjingxialaihou，womenkeyijijihenvyougoutongjiaoliu，yilizhipinghedexintai，lejieduifangdezhenzhenzhengzhengchuangyixiangfayaoqiu，jiejuewentigailvhuifeichangda。

　　“寻找外界支持和帮助”

　　dangmianduifenshoukunjingshi，womenkeyikaolvdaoxunzhaowaijiezhichiheguli。zhuyaobaokuoyuyaohaodepengyouyujiarenqingtu，xiangjishuzhuanyexinlizixunshixunqiubangzhu，huozhecanjiaqingxufudaoke。ziyuankeyiweiwomentigonglexindejiaoduhejiejuewentidecelve，bangwomennenggougenghaodijiejuefuzadeqinggannanti。

　　“为以后铺平道路”

　　buguanwomenzuihoushibushiwanhuiganqing，douyingweiyihoupupingdaolu。zheiyiweizhewomenbixuzhaoguhaozijishentijiankang，suzaogerengerenaihaoheyouqingguanlian。yucitongshi，dajiayekeyixuexibingxishoucicifenshoujiwomendailaidejingyanhejiaoxun，weixiayiduanganqingchongfenzhunbei。

　　nvpengyouyaofenshouyaowanliuma，dangmianduinvyoumingquetichufenshoushi，womenyaosikaoaiqingdebodong，lijieduifangdetiaoxuan，shenshizijigerenxingweihexingwei，baochilizhihelizhi，xunzhaowaijiezhichihebangzhu，bingweiyihoupupingdaolu。zuizhuyaodeshi，dajiaxuyaojizhu，aiqingdefazhanqushibingbushidanfangmianshier，xuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendouyulijie。buguanzuihoudejieguozenyang，dajiadouyidingyaochengzhangyujiena，jizijigenduifangchuangzaoyigegenghaodemingtian。