为什么恋爱越久就越不会结婚呢

　　zuonvpengyoumingquetichufenshoushi，renmenchangchangshenxianwanliudekunhuodangzhong。dajiakaishikaolv，shifougaiqinfenwanhuizheiyiduanganqing，huozheshifoufangshourangshuangfangdoukeyibaituo？zheigewentibingmeijiandanhuida。yaowanliuhuoshifangshou，zaiyuduiyuguanlianqijiazhiheweilaiqidai。womenyinggaishensishulv，bingqinshentihuixingweidailaidejieguo，zuihouzuochuduizishenheduifangdoufuzerendequeding。nvpengyouyaofenshouyaowanliuma，zheiyixuanzebingbuqingqingsongsong，quexuyaoyoudajiayigerenqumaixianghuidadezhian。

　　wanliuhuoshifangshou，chiyizhijiandexuanze

　　困惑与痛苦

　　nvpengyouyaofenshouyaowanliuma？zheigewentiyingxiangzhechengqianshangwannansheng。zaidezhinvpengyouhenyoukenengbeipanzijishi，xinlifanqishizhiyiguhunzadexintai，kunhuoyutongkujiaocuozaixinshang。tamenkaishifansitazaiganqinglidechengbaideshi，tanxunfanxiacuowuhenji。shifougaiwanliu，bianchengxinxuzhongzuiweituchudejujiaodian。

　　情感上的繁杂

　　yingduifenshouyali，henduorenxuyaowanhuiganqingdehuozhong，qinfengaibianxianzhuang，dadaoduifangdexuqiu。qishizheigewentijiezhongerlai，zheileijianchishichuziyuzhenxinshiyihaishichuyupashiqu？shifougaijianglingyibanjinzhua，huoshijiyuziyouxuanze？qingganshangdefanzarangdajiazaifenqibianyuanpaihuai，baizaiwomenmianqiandetiaoxuankanqilaigengjiajiannan。

　　挽留的价值

　　zaiwanliudeguochengdangzhong，womenwangwanghuitichuzhiyi。zhiyaoduifangzhendebuaile，haizhidewanliuma？jiaruwomenbuduandeququanliwanhui，yezhibuguoshihaowuyiyidetouru，dajiayougaihequhecong？danshi，wanliuqishishiweilelianggerengongtongdemeihaohuiyi，yitongdemeimiao，napazuihoujielunbujinrenyi，dajiarengjiuhuiyinweizhiqianjianchibuxiedenulierwuyuanwuhui。

　　尊重与接纳

　　zaiaiqingdedaolushang，meiyourennengshangxialingyifangdejuece。nvyoutiaoxuanfenshou，huoxushitaneixindezhenshitiyan，dajiayinggaizunzhongtaqueding。bulunshiwanliuhuoshifangshou，douyaomianduixianshi，dongdecongzheidangzhongjiqujiaoxun，xiangqianzou。shenghuobuhuiyouyuyiduanganqingchedijieshuerjieshu，dajiayinggainulitaguotongku，zhaodaoxindehenyoukeneng。

　　全力挽回的好机会

　　youshi，wanliubingbushimeiyoujiyu。jiaruwomenzhenxinyuanyigaibianxianzhuang，heduifangzaicilajinguanxihejiaoliu，zaicifazhanqushiganqing，huoxunenggougaibianfenshoudejuece。danshitongshi，womenyeyinggaigaoqingchuzheishiyitiaomanzhanglumian，xuyaoshuangfangqinfen，bixubaorongyurenshou。jiaruwanhuiqudechenggong，neishiyiduangengjiajianqianghewanshandeganqing；jiaruwanhuibuchenggong，womenhaihuibianchenggenghaodeziji。

　　感受与启发

　　nvpengyouyaofenshouyaowanliuma？zheigewentimeiyoudaan。zaixinlideshijiezhong，meigerenyoumeigerendexuanzeyuqueding。buguanwomenwanliuhuoshifangshou，zuizhuyaodeshiyongxintingzheiyiduanganqingsuodailaidejingliyujingyanjiaoxun，renzhenlaipanduanhequedingzijideaiqing。buguanyihouzenyang，womendouyinggaijianxin，womendeyishenghuiyinzheixiejinglierbiandegengjiaxiangxi。