女人结婚是应该找“我爱的人”还是“爱我的人”？

　　nvshengfenshouduoshaotianzuisinianduifang，zheishiyigeguanyuganqingheganqingdewenti。fenshouhou，nvshengduiairendesiniankeyishuoshiyizhongchangjiandeqingxu。youxierenshuo，nvshengfenshouzhihoudesinianqiyibanjiangchixuyiduanshijian，zheiyizhouqishijianhenyoukenengyousuobutong。youderenkenengzaifenshouzhihoudejitianzhineikeyiwangdiaolingyifang，eryouderenkenengbixushuyuenaizhiduoniancainengzuodaozhenzhengxuehuifangxia。fenshouzhihoudesinianjingchangbansuihuiyiheqingganshangdefanzadanxin，danzaijingliyiduanshijiandekuchuheziwotishengyihou，henduonvshengzuizhongnenggoukuachusiniandejianxin，jixuqianjin，yinglaigenghaodeshenghuo。

　　分手产生的无尽思念

　　bulunshizaishenmeyangdeganqingzhong，fenshouzhenduinvshenglaishuodoushiyizhongjidazaochengdeshanghai。fenshouyihou，nvshengjingchangshenxiansiniandewoxuan，bunengziba。erqiezheigesinianshijianzhangduan，zeyousuobutong。tamenyexuyaohuashangjitiannaizhijizhoulaimanmanxiguanfenshoudeshiji，danneizhongduibicidesinianzhixinquewangwangbansuitamenhenzhangyiduanshijian。

　　思念的美好时光过于悠长

　　fenshouzhihoudenvsheng，tongchangxuyaomanzhangyiduanshijianlaimanmanxuehuifangxiaduiairendesinian。zheiyiduanshijian，youkenengshihaoduogeyue，huoshigengjiushenzhishunianshijian。nvshengzaizheiduanrizili，henyoukenenghuijingchangxiangqiheduifanghuandudemeihaohuiyi，meiyigexijiedoushenshencitengzhetamendeneixin。tamenjingjingdimaizangzhezheiyifensinian，haoxiangzaidengdaizheshenmeshike，shenmeshunjian，shitamenzhenzhengkeyiwangjiguoqu。

　　思念，是痛楚都是发展

　　fenshouzhihoudesinian，jishiyizhongtongchu，tongshiyeshiyizhongfazhan。nvshengzaisinianderilitou，yaojinglihenduoqingganshangdejingtaohailang，baohanshiwang、naonu、houhuimoji、tongkudeng。zheiduanriziduitameneryan，shiyiciziwofansihehuifulvcheng。manmanbaochiqingxing，tamenzhujianyishidaozijidexuqiuyushiyongjiazhi，jinergengjiandingdimianxiangweilai。

　　总算道别思念，向前推进

　　danshi，jibiansinianzaishen，shizhangzhonghuidamoyiqiederuili，nvshenghaihuizaiqinshenjinglitongkuyuziwotishengyihou，xiangyaobaituozheileizhanzhuannanmiandeganjuele，wangjiguoqu，jixuqianjin。tamenhuidongderuheshifangchulaiyiwangdeqingxu，zenyangzhongshizishen，zhongxinzhaodaoxingfudekeneng。zhonggui，tamenhuimingbai，sinianshidangnian，erxingfucaishiweilai。

　　思念长短在于个别差异

　　rutongmeiyigerenjingyubutong，siniandeshizhangyeyinreneryi。youyixienvshengkenenghuizaifenshouzhihoudejitianzhineikeyixuehuifangxia，zijintourugenghaodeshenghuo。eryoudenvsheng，zexuyaotouruhenzhangdeshijianlaimanmanquanyusiniandeshangtong。buguanshijiandezhangduan，meiyigenvshengdouyouquanlixuanzeshihezijidefangfa，laimianduifenshousuodailaidesinian。

　　分手并不是结束，思念并不是终点站

　　nvshengfenshouduoshaotianzuisinianduifang，zheizhongqingkuangmeiyouyigemingquedehuida。meiyigenvshengdetiyanshiduyiwuerde，siniandeshizhangyeyinweigebiechayierbutong。danbuguansinianshiduojiu，fenshoujinjinshenghuozhongdeyigejiedian，ersinianbushizhongdian，fanershikaiqixindepianzhangdejihui。zaisiniandeguochengdangzhong，nvshenghuibiandeyuelaiyuejianqianghewanshan，weizijideaiqingerfendou。