恋爱久了，爱情就一定会转变为亲情吗？

　　nvshengtifenshounanshengshuoyaolengjing，zaiaiqingdaolushang，nvshengjiandingdijichulefenshou。danshi，nanshengqueyonglizhiweiliyou，shituzuzhizheiyijuedingdeshixing。zaizheiyiduanganqingdejiaozhizhong，nvshengtifenshouchengweileyizhongyinqisisuoshijian，bingqieyejielulenanshengneixinshenchudezhenzhenzhengzhengfenqi。yexu，zheiyiqingxingdexiwangbeihouyinzangzhenanshengzhenduisangshinvshengdeaohuiyubushe，erzheiyiduanganqingzuizhongjiejujiujinghuizenyangquanshi，jinyoushijianyubicizhijiandezhenxincaikeyijieshi。

　　分手的主要选择

　　fenshou，shiyiduanganqingzhongzuirangrentongkudexuanzezhiyi。tadaibiaozheliangrenyiqianchongmanxiwanghenongnongdeaiyimengxiangposui，zeyiweizhetadelumianjiangfenli，zaiyebunengzhonghe。danshi，dangnvshengmingquetichufenshoushi，nanshengquejianchibaochilengjing，zheibudeburangrensikaoqizheigemingtiqibeihoudezhuduogailv。

　　爱恨纠葛与矛盾

　　yexu，nvshengmingquetichufenshoulaiyuanyuliangrenjiandemouleiaihenjiuge。xinlingdejuliladale，liangrenxiangchubiandeyuelaiyuekunnan，bulunshiyouyuzhengzhi、bufuhehuozhexinhan。nvshenghuoxuyijingtihuidaolezheileijinzhangguanxi，erjuedingfangshou，yixunzhaozuishihezijidefangwei。danshi，nanshengdeqiulizhi，shibushidaibiaozhehaiyoujiu? shibushidaibiaotahaizainuliwanliuzheifenganqing? zheizhongmaodunbudeburangrenxincunqixukunhuo。

　　男生的心理斗争

　　yexu，nanshengdelizhiguidingbingbujinjinzhishiyizhongbiaocengdetuituo。yexu，dangmianduinvshengdefenshouqingqiushi，tadexinliyijingmengliedizhengtuo。tahuoxuyijingyucefenxidaozheiyitiandedaolai，danshidangnvshengqueshijiangchuzheisangezishi，keshitajieshoubule。lizhi，bujinjinshitaxunzhaobeirenlijiehekuanrongdexingshi，doushitakewangzaiciwanhuiganqingjianchibuxiedenuli。tayexuxiwangyonglengjingfenxi，zhaodaoliangrenzuichudemeihao，zhaohuishiqumoqiyujiqing。

　　分手之后的么挣脱

　　fenshouzhihoudejianglai，shiliangrenzaicijiuchanbuqinghuoshifenbiexiangqian? zheiyeshiliangrendoubixuyaokaolvdewenti。nvshengdetifenshou，kenengzhishiyishidechongdonghuoshijingguoshenzhongkaolvdedaodejieguo，danbuguanzenyang，tayijingzuochulezheigexuanze。nanshengdelizhiqidai，kenengzhishiyigeguoduqi，jiliangrenyiduanshijianjinxingsikaoshibushizhendeyaoxuehuifangxia。wulunshixuanzecongtoukaishi，haishihuijixuyiqingxingdefangfawanbi，tamenyedouyaomianduifenshouchanshengdeshangtongyutongku，zhongshizijidefangxiang。

　　爱的多元性与茫然

　　ganqing，conglaijiubushiyifanfengshunde。shenghuozhongyoukuaile，youyoushang；youwenxin，yeshiyoulengdan。nvshengtifenshou，nanshengqiulizhi，doubuguoshizheifenganqingzhongduoyuanxingdeyigesuoying。buguanfenshouzhihoudezuihoujieguoruhe，tamenyehuizaizheiguochengzhongfazhan，mingbaixiangyaolejiegengduoguanyuaihesangshidejingsui。aiqingdedaolushangbingbushizishizhizhongyifanfengshun，danzhengshiyinweiyoulekankehecuozhe，cainenggenghaodelejiehezhenxizhenzhengdeaiqing。

　　zheiyiju“nvshengtifenshounanshengshuoyaolengjing”eryinfadesisuo，shejileaihenjiuge、xinlidouzhengjiqiweilaidexuanze。aidekankelushang，liangrendouyaozhaodaozijidehuida，bingzuizhongzouxiangtamenzhenzhengdekuaile。