男人为追求爱情放弃婚姻 浪漫还是浪费

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　　分手的阴影中，挽回的黎明

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　　1. 全面了解缘故，找到存在的问题

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　　2. 给与空间和时间，反省自己

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　　3. 诚挚沟通交流，表述内心深处的真实体验

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　　4. 积极主动更改，呈现成长与收获

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　　5. 用实际行动证实，给与归属感

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