价值观和消费观不同 男友对我好却不说结婚

　　meiciwohenvyoufashengzhengzhishi，yizhibukebimiantingdaotafanfudeyanyu：“nvyoumeicichaojiadoushuofenshou”。zheiyijujianjiemingleyouhenlijidebiaoshu，chengweiwomenzhengzhizhongdechangtai。bulunshisuoshihuoshidashier，tachangchangjiecilaibiaoshutaxinhan、shiwanghesunhai。danshi，zheihuashenhouyoushenmeshenkehanyi？yinweitazhendexiangfenshou，youhuozheshiyishidechongdongyuqingxufaxie？woshenganyihuo，buzhidaogairuhejiejuezheiyixunhuanxitong，zenmexiufuwomenzhijiandefenqi，bianyuyizhizouxiaqu。

　　无法言说的心绪

　　nvyoumeicichaojiadoushuofenshou，congtamenxiangshidaoxiangai，lianggerendeganqingyizhichongmanzhereqinghetianmei。danshi，jinqidechaojiarangwoxianrulechensihedanyou。meimeizhengchaobuduanwanshan，tachangchangyongyizhongzhishangdefangshiquwanbi：biaoxianletaxiangfenshoudexiangfa。zheiyangdeshiqingfashengleshuci，suiranzuizhongdajiahaishizhongguiyuhao，danwoneixinfanbeizheizhonganshizheshenshendianranle。

　　常态化或是威协？

　　tashifouzhendexiangwanbiwomendeguanxi？wocengjingbuduansikaozheigewenti。meicitajiangchu“fenshou”liangzishi，woganshoudaoduifangdeqingxuqifu，yijitaduiwomenzhijiandexinhanhebuman。danshi，meiyicichaojiawanchenghou，tabianyuelaiyuewenrouqietiexin，xiaoshiyenenggourangwomenxiaozaiyiqi。zheizhongzhuanbianqueshirangwobuzhisuocuo，buquedingtadaodishizhendexiangliqu，huoshijinjinshiyizhongqingxufaxie。

　　沟通障碍

　　wocaiyishidao，womenzhijiandeyigegenbenguanjianshigoutongbudaowei。zaichaojiadeguochengdangzhong，duifangdeqingxujingchangyizhiwomenzhijiandeduitan，tazhizhuzhongyutaqiangliebumanyutongku，erhushilewodeganjueheyijian。zheileidanxiangdejiaoliufangshirangwomendezhengchaobiandeyuefafuzaernanjie。wojiquezhaodaofangfa，rangwomennenggougengjialixingdibiaodazijideganshou，jiqilingtinglingyifangdeshengxiang。

　　探寻对策

　　womendeguanxibingfeiyifanfengshun，keworengxiangxinwomenzhijiancunyouzhenchengdeai。weilenengxiufutishengwomenzijideqingganlianjie，wodasuancaiqujijixingdong。zuixian，wonengjianchibuxiehetakaizhankaifangchengxindeduitan，bingchongfenlingtingtaxinlingshenchudekewangheyaoqiu。yucitongshi，wohuibiaodachuzijidekunhuoyubuan，yiqiujiqitasisuohesikao。ciwai，womenkeyiyiqixunqiuzhuanyedezixunxiezhu，yihuodegengjiahaodegoutongdejiqiaohejiejuemaodundebanfa。zuizhuyaodeshi，womenyinggaixianghutilianghelijie，yijianliyigejiankangerlaogudeguanlianjiben。

　　汇总

　　nvyoumeicichaojiadoushuofenshou，meiyicitazaizhengchaohoutijifenshou，wokunhuobuyihejuewang，danwoshenxin，womenkeyijingguonulihezhenchengdegoutong，xunzhaoduice。wulunshigaijingoutongjiaoliu，tigaolejie，huoshixunqiuzhuanyexiezhu，zheixienulidoujiangweiwomenzaicigoujianqixianghuzunzhonghexianghuyicundezhongyaoqianti。woxiangxin，yinweiwomenzhenxinshiyiqinfen，womendeaijianghuiyuelaiyuewujianbucui。