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　　为什么暑假容易分手

　　shengxiataiyangsamandadi，kuremanmantongguodajiadexinfei，shuqijijie，aiqinghaoxiangyebiandecuiruoxiaqu。yuqitajijieduibi，shuqirongyichengweifenshouduofaqi。daodishishenmeyuanyinzaochenglezheiyixianxiangni？rangwomenyiqilaitanxunba。

　　1. 暑假的随意与压力

　　shujiashixueshengzuiqidaidejiari，tamenjieshufanzadekeye，tuolilejushu，jinqingxiangshousuixinsuoyudesuiyue。danshi，zheileisuiyiyehuidailaigongzuoyali。zaishujiali，dajiachangchanghuiyudaozhuduoyinyouhejiyu，youqishizaixiuxianhuodongzhong。henyoukenengyouyushoudaoyinyouhuozhezhuixunsirenkongjiandexiangwang，yifangxingchenglefenshoudexiangfa。

　　2. 之间的距离芥蒂

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　　3. 短暂性的热情与现实矛盾

　　xiaridelangmanfenweihechiredefenweishichanghuirangrenmenchennizaiaiqingdeqihuanshijiezhong。danshi，yidanjinruxianshi，yixiliewentihenyoukenengjiezhongerlai。shuqiyijieshu，bicigujiyaoyingduikeye、gongzuojixianshideyaliheyiwai。duanzanxingderechenxianshidemaodun，rangaiqingwufajianchixiaqu，fenshouyechengweiwunaidexuanze。

　　4. 温度产生的影响

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　　5. 个人成长的需要

　　shuqiyeshiyigedajiakaizhanzizhusikaohegerenchengzhangdejieduan。zaizheiqijian，xuduorenhuizhujiansikaozijidejianglaiherenshengguihua，duiguanlianzhongdezhongzhongnantiyoulegengshencengcidetansuo。youderenkenengchajuezijihenannvpengyouzhijiandeguannian、gerenaihaodengfangmiancunzaichabie，congertiaoxuanfenshou，tanxunzuishihezijideairenhuoshizhuixungerenchengzhangdehaojihui。

　　zongtilaishuo，weishenmeshujiarongyifenshou，bujinyouwaizaimeitiaojiandexianzhi，yeshiyouneizaiyuangu。shujiadesuiyi、zhijiandejulijiedi、duanzanxingdereqingyuxianshimaodun、wenduchanshengdeyingxianggerenchengzhangdexuyao，zhongzhongyinsuxiangfuxiangcheng，yitongcujinzhefenshoudechansheng。jibianruci，womenyekeyitongguoshencengcidegoutongyulejie，jiqibicidedalizhichiheqinfen，qinfenweichiaiqing，duguoshuqizheiyijianyandeshishikeke。