花镇咨询有效果吗？第一次恋爱应该注意哪些？

 dahuoerjianghuidoulejiechuliannvyoudetichufenshoudegailvshifengao，ercongchuliannvyoudaobaitoudelianrenkendingshishaojiande。chuliannvyoushitadiyicizhuiruaihe。huazhenzixunyouxiaoguoma?lengaihehuazhendaodikebukexin?huazhenkehudianhuahaomashiduoshao?

 dangtamendiyicizhuiruaiheshi，henduorenbuqingchuzenyangbiaoshuzishendeqinggan。zailianaizhong，tamenyizhiyongzishendepiqiquzuogeshigeyangdeshier。buguannizhuiruaihejihui，meimeinizhuiruaihe，nidoushipengdaoyixienanti，keshinidiyicizhuiruaiheshi，aideqinshenjinglifeichangshao，nibuhuizhidaoruhechulidajiaguanlianzhongdehenduonanti。zheizaochenghenduorendiyicilianaidoushibuchenggong。shijishang，ruguoninengzaizhuiruaiheyiqianlejieyixianeirong，wojuedediyicilianaidetongguolvhuigaodeduo。

掌握另一方的个性化

 zailianaizhong，jinyouzailejielelingyifangdegexinghuayihou，2geyouxiurencainengjinkuaigoutongjiaoliu，shuobailezhibizhiji，fangnengbuluan。biru，tadexingqinglizhi，nideleguankailang，zheijiubixuxianghudiaozhengpinlv，xianghuzhijianrongrulingyifangdejiezougan。

掌握另一方的爱好

 ruguonixiangxunsutiwenguanlian，niyinggaizhidaozenyangshunshuituizhou。danglingyifangxiangyaobiaoshuzishendebenrenxihaoshi，jiyushiduderentongyeshishifenguanjiande，zheijiangshilingyifangjuedeshifenkailang。yunizaochengyizhonggongmingdiandejuede。

变成TA的盆友

 budanyaokaolvdaobianchenglingyifangdelianren，yeyaoxianzhangwozenyangbianchenglingyifangdepenyou。dajiahuiduiqinglvyouyidingdeyangai，keshiduiwomendepengyougengduiwaikaifang。danruguoninengbianchengyigemeiyouhuashuobingzuihoubianchenglianrendepenyou，huichanshenggengweipingwendeganqing。

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