情侣吵架了该怎么和解

情侣 吵架 了该怎么和解？可能很多情侣在吵架后都选择了 冷战 huozhezhijiefanlianshenmede，shihouyebuzhidaozenmehejie，gayumianzishenmede。

 qinglvxiangchunanmianyouchaojiadeshihou，zhengchaobingbushishenmekepadewenti，youshihouzhengchaohainengjiejuewenti，dankepadeshiqinglvzhengchaowanhoubuzhidaoruhequhejie，ruguobudongdehejie，meiyoujinkuaihejie，chaojiadaozhideliehenjiuhuiyuelaiyueda，jiuhuichanshengyixiemeibiyaodewujieshanghaidaolebicideganqing。neime，qinglvjianzhengchaohouruhejinkuaihejieni？

找寻两个人吵架的原因

 zhiyounongqinglelianggerenweishenmechaojia，cainengzhaochuhelidefangfalaijiejuewenti。yeshishinanfangdecuo，yexushinvfangdecuo。zhiyoujiangyuantouzhaochulai，lianggerencainengjiangsiweiliandaotongyitiaoxianshang，buranlianggerenbufenyuanyoudedaoqian，zhihuijiazhongliangrenzhijiandewujie，zhihounaodeyuelaiyueda。

有错就要认

 zuoweinanren，buguanshidashihaishixiaoshi，buguanshibushiyinweizijideyuanyinchaodejia，buguanshibushizijidecuo，douyaoxianggenanrenyiyang，dongdequhehunideqizi，kenengzheishihoutahaishiwufalijieni，wufajieshounidedaoqian，danshinibixushenkederenshidaozheigeshiqingdeyanzhongxing，ranhouyaobujianduandedaoqianhedouqizilaixiao。

不要去攻击对方的短处

 dangyigerengongjinideduanchushi，nishibushihuihenfennuni?tongyangdedaolu，helingyibanchaojiashi，nidasijiangduifangdeduanchufangda，butingdishuolaishuoqu，duifangzenmehuibushengqini?

 erqienibarenjiadezuzongdouwenhoulegebian，xiangbibushengqiyeshibuzhengchangde。suoyishuo，zuoweiwomenchaojiadeshihou，buyaoqufangdaduifangdeduanchu，yinggaijiushilunshi，buyaochebuxianggandehuati，buranzhihuiyuechaoyuexiong。

找对时机化解矛盾

两人在吵架之后，如果是感到愤怒或者是怨恨的话，选择一个安静的时刻和放心的对象倾诉，或者直接平心静气跟伴侣 沟通 。zongzhibixuliqinghehuajie，jicunwuhuiheyuanduideguanxi，yidingbuhuishihaodebanlvguanxi。