男友爸妈反对我们在一起，我该放弃还是挽回？

 nanyoubamajianguowobingfanduiwomenzaiyiqi，wohouchenanyouwanhui，bingqieshuohuigenfumutanpan。qingwennanyoushiduiwozhangzema？ruguotafumujixufanduiwomenhaishixiangzaiyiqi，neiwoyinggaixuanze fenshou haishiwanhuini？

nanyoubamafanduiwomenzaiyiqi，wogaifangqihaishiwanhui？

网友 情感咨询

 huazhennihao，woshibanniandeqianshuifen，xianzaizaibaidu《wanmei》，kanleyihoushenzhidimvgaopunulishengmvjiangpu，xiwangbeichouzhong。

 wo22sui，45gongjin，157cm，dazhuan，feiduchu，xianchengxiaohushi，jinniangangkaoshangbianzhi，mvziping4fen。nanpengyou22sui，65gongjin，172cm，benkegangbiye，duchu，siqizhiyuan，mv6fen（baozhaoqiudafen），xinyixianchengshidaikuanmaifang。

 womenzaiyiqisangeyuehoufashengguanxi，zhidaogaopan，womenshizaiyiyuanrenshide。zaiyiqijiugeyuele，ganqingnongduhengao，chaoguoyiliangcimeibaopu，baxinliduitadebumanyongsajiaodexingshibiaodachulai，bujinhongwohaijiwomaichidezuoweibuchang（zheiyaoxiexiehuazhen，memeda）。chuquwanjibentahuaqian，meisongguowohenguizhongdeliwu，tabama（gongwuyuan）zaiyiyuanjianguowo，fanduiwomenzaiyiqi（nanyouzhishigenfumutidaoxihuanwoxianggenwozaiyiqi，neishihoubingmeiyouzaiyiqi），buxiwangzhaoyiwurenyuan，xiwangzhaoyigenenggujiayidian。

 wozhidaohouche，nanyouwanhui，shuodouhaimeiyoujitajihuijiufangqizheiduanganqing，gangkaishishuoguoniangaosutabamawomenzaiyiqi，houbianshuotameiyougenfumutanpandechouma，gongwuyuansixiangfengjianshenmede，bijingyihoujiehunhaishidekaotamenmaifangzijicailishenmede。xianzaiwokaoshangbianzhile，longtongshuogentamayesuantongshi，tahenkaixin，youlegenbamatanbaidediqi，wodesuqiushi：

①他对我是否长择？

②wohenxihuantaxianggentazaiyiqidanshigujitabamahennangaoding，wogaizenmezuo？

③ruguohaishifanduidanshiwomenlianghaishixiangzaiyiqi，yaobuyaofenshou？

花镇情感 咨询师 花镇 回复：

 congnifalaidezhaopianlaikan，nideyanzhiyuanbuzhi4fen，erqiehaizhonglejiyincaipiao，shikanqilaipuhendidegaomv，suiranzaiyanzhishanghenanyoujibenchiping，meiyouzhandaotaidadeyoushi，danshizaizheiduanguanxizhongbingbuxiangnirenweideneiyanggaopan。

 youqishinizaizheiduanganqingzhong，yizhinulitishengzijidemv，nidenanyoubiranleyujinigenggaodeganqingnongdu；zaizaoyunanyoubamafanduizhihou，youjishiwanmeihouche，tigaoleduifangdezhangzechengyi。zaiciqingkuangxia，nanyoubamananyigaodingdewenti，wanquankeyijiaojinanyouzijiqujiejue，ernizhiyaoxiangxianzaizheiyangzunxungaomvdipudeyuanze，gaodingnanyoujike。

 ruguonanyoudebamayiranfanduinimendeguanxi，ernimenhaixiangyaozaiyiqi，jiuzhinengguanchananyoudetaidu。tangruoduifangzaitaidushanghexingdongshangdoujianjuedizhanzainizheiyibian，bingqiekaishijijiguihuameiyoujializhichideqingkuangxiagairuhetuijinhunyin，neimenihaikeyikaolvjianchizheiduanguanxi；

 tangruoduifangzhidongdezaizhongjianhexini，tuoyanzhangzejincheng，wanquanbudongdezhenxini，neimejiujianyinijinzaofenshouhuanren。bijingcongnidetiaojianlaikan，wanquankeyipipeiyigebucuodebanlv。yiwurenyuandeshenfenbenbugaibeimomingxianqi，suoyinizainanyoubamamianqianwuduanbeikandizhendemankexi。