为什么男朋友不愿意哄我了？

情感问题 咨询

 benrennv，20sui，shengao165tizhong48kg。nanpengyouhewoyiyangda，shengao185tizhong70kg。wohetarenshiliangnianbanle，zaiyiqikuaisigeyuele。

 yikaishiwomeicifapiqitadouhuihongwo，woshineizhongmanzuodenvsheng，piqihenbaozao，dashixiaoshidouhuihetabukaixin，tayehuihongworanhouanweiwo，meiguoduojiuwomenjiuyouhaole。danshiguolehanjiahou，jiuzaizheijitian，woganjuetabianle，wojitadadianhuatayebujieyizhishuozijimang，wowentazaiganshenmetajiushuokandianshi，woshuoniweishenmebudaonizijifangjianliqujiwodadianhuahaoleyihouzaikandianshi，tajiuyizhihewoshuobufangbianshenmede，gaodewohuoqihenda。

 qiantianwohetadalegedianhuatajiele，tashuonimeitiandouyaowenwowoaibuaini，shibushizuiainizenmezenmeyidaduiwentigaodewofandoufansile，nijiubunengzijizuozuohaoma，biandeguaiyidian，zhengtianfanwo，wohenishuoleyoushihouwozaimangmeibanfajienidianhuanizenmejiushibutingni。tadezheixiehuawotingletebienanshou，tayiqianconglaibuhuihewoshuode，wobuzhidaoweishenmetahuibianchengzheigeyangzi。

 zheiliangtianwofanyechibuxia，meitiandouhenyumen，woyebuzhidaozenmehetahaohaoxiangchu。meiciwoxianghetahaohaogoutongtazongshibuyuanyiyaomejiushizhuanyihuatihuozhefajigebiaoqingbaofuyanjixia，woxianzaigaizenmebanni?

花镇情感 咨询师 回答：

 zaizheigegushili，wojuedeyoujuhuatebieyouyisi。nishuotayiqianconglaibuhuihenishuo(zheiyangdehua)，buzhidaoweishenmetahuibianchengzheiyang。yuanyinhenjiandan——rendeganqingjiuxiangxinyongka，shualezongshiyaohaide，ernishuabaole，duifangdangranshizheizhongbiaoxian。

 meicinifapiqideshihou，duifangzongshihongzheni。danshi，zheizhong“hong”shiyouxiandude，bukenengyibeizichixu。taderennaidaodalejixianshi，ziranjiushiniyaohaizhaideshihou。

 nisuoshuode“haohaogoutong”，zhishixiwangtanengxiangyiqianyiyang，huidaocongqian(niyifapiqijiuhaohaohongni)dejiaose。danshi，zailiangxingguanxizhong，liangrendeweizhiyidanfashengyidong，bianhennanzaihuidaoguoqudeweizhi。

 nixianzaibiaoxianchulaidezhongzhongxingwei，yexuyinweinizhiyou20sui，meiyoutaiduojingyan，zhixiwangtongguoduifangdeanwei，laihuoquneixindeanquangan。woxiang，zheijiushichengzhangdegongke——ai，bushiwenduifang“aibuaiwo”，ershitongguoxingdongheguanxilaiqueren。

 taxianzaiyijingbiaodalezijidexuqiu，xiwangninengguanhaoziji。ruguonibunenggoushiyingzheigezhuanbian，neimezheiduanguanxidejieshushibiranhuifashengde。

 wojianyinizhongxindiaozhengzhuyili，fangxiaguoqu，guanzhuxianzai，bingqiexuehuibuyao“zuo”。yinweinidezuo，yijingjiduifangdailaihendadekunrao。

 wozhidaoduiyuhenduorenlaishuo，zheishihennanxiuliandegongke。shishangsuoyoudezuo，doushiyinweizijiwufawendingzishendeqingxu，erxiangwaisuoqubierenanfuzijidetaidu。zheishiyizhongqingxunenglidixiadebiaoxian。

 woxiwangninengchengweiyigeyongyouqiangdaguanliqingxunenglideren。duoxiexieqingxurijiba，napameitianguanchazijideqingxubianhua，yebinixianzaizheiyangguohaodeduo。