婆媳关系心态咨询：怎样处理好婆媳矛盾？

 poxizhijiandemaodunyijingyingxiangdaohunyindewendingxing，ruguo poxiguanxi buhaoneimefuqiguanxiyehuihenrongyipolie。danghunyinliangqihongdengshi，ruhelixingdichulipopoyuxifuzhijiandeguanxini？

poxiguanxixintaizixun：zenyangchulihaopoximaodun？

1、相互尊重

 poxizhijianyinggaixianghuzunzhong，zuoweipopo，zijisuiranshizhangbei，danyebunengzaierximianqianchangbaijiazi，shengqilingren，zuoweierxiruheyudaozheiyangdepopo，gengyinggaizunzhong，duozunzhongpopo，zaipopoxinqinghaodeshihou，keyirangzhangfuquweiwandetixingyixiapopo，zheiyangjiumaodunhuishaoyixie。

2、相互理解体谅

 poxizhijianzaizunzhongdejichushanghaiyaoxianghulijietiliang，yudaomaodundeshihou，yaokezhiziji，xuehuicongduifangdejiaodusikaowenti，duotiduifangxiangyixiang，zijizuodeshifoushanghaileduifang，zheiyangzaichulishiqingdeshihou，jiubuhuibashiqingnongdewufashoushi，buzhiyushanghaipohuailepoxizhijiandeguanxi，huirangguanxigengmiqie。

3、克制争吵

 wulunchuxianleduodadefenqiyijian，shuangfangdouyaokezhiziji，buyaozhengchao，jibianshiyouyigerenfahuole，lingyigeyeyaokezhiziji，tebieshiwanbeihaishiyaokezhiyidian，qianwanbuyaoshiqulizhi，qiebukezhenjianduimaimang，buranhuihennanchulizhengchaodailaidemaodunwentide。

4、家丑不可外传

 poxizhijianruguofashenglemaodun，yijian，nulizuodaozijichuli，buyaoxiangniangjiatiqi，gengbuyaoxiangtongshi，linjuqushuo，bimiankuodamaodun，yinweichuandaoyueduo，shiqinghuiyuefuza，yuenanshoushichuli，zheixiechuanyanzhihuijibuhaodepoxiguanxixueshangjiashuang。

5、做好日常情感交流维护

 zuoweixifu，bujinzaiwuzhishangduoxiaojingpopoyixia，haiyaopingshihepopoduoliaoliaotian，zuiyaotianyidian，tiandianbuchikui，yidingyaojiaoma，buguanshishenmechanghe，zaiwaimianhetarenliaotianyeshiruci，nengzuodaozheidian，poxiguanxibuhuitaichade，qingganjiaoliubiwuzhigengzhongyao。

6、让丈夫发挥好作用

 chulipoxiguanxidehexinliliangyiranshizijidezhangfu，suoyipingshiyidingyaohezhangfudeguanxiyaohao，rangzhangfulijietiliangziji，dangzijihepopodeguanxibuhaoshi，zhangfudehuapopohaishixihuantingde，bijingshizijideerzi，rangzhangfuhepopojiaoliu，huihuajiehenduodemaodunde。

7、不能自卑

 zuoweixifu，buguanzijidejiatingtiaojianruhebunengzibei，popokanbuqizijideshihougengyinggaizunzhongziji，zijizuodehenhao，danpopojiushikanbuguandeshihou，keyirangzhangfuhepopotanhuagoutong，jishigaibianpopoduizijidekanfa，buranqingxujileidaoyidingchengdudeshihouhuidailaixiangbudaodehouguode。