家暴的男人会改吗？家暴男人心态分析

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网友情感咨询：

youjiabaoqingxiangdenanrennenggaima？weishenmetarenshibudaozijidarenbuduini？

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情感咨询师回复：

jiabaodenanrenxintaishihenfuzade，shouxianwomenlailejieyixiajiatingbaolibeihouyoushencengcidexintaiyuanyin。

1、自卑心态。 shibaozhezaiyixiexiangguannenglishangtongchangyousuoquefahuobuzu，ruquefaziwokendingdenengli、chulipipingdenengli、diaojiechongtudenengli、chuliqingxudenengli。zaishibaozhebamianweifengdewaibiaoxia，youzheyikebingbujianqiangdexinheyigehunluandeziwo。

2、多疑心态。 youdenanxingxinggeneixiang，minganduoyi。youyuqizirongmaojiaohao，tebiezaiyiqiziyuyixingdejiaowang。yidankanjianhuotingdaoqizitongyixingjiechu，jiuhuichuxianbuman，duji、huaiyixintai，gengyoushenzhe，jinxinggenzong，wulunqiziruhejieshi，douwujiyushi。wuduandecaiyidaozhiyongbaolilaifaxiexinzhongdebuman。

3、压力过重心态。 xiandaishehuijingzhengriqujilie，nanxinghuiyudaozhurushiye、gongzuoyalida，zaoshoucuozhedajidengwenti，mianduijudadeshengcunyali，tamenbuhuikongzhizijideqingxu，zhaobudaoshidangjiejuewentidebanfa，jiuhuixunqiuyizhongxuanxiedetujing，zhuruxujiu、fapiqideng，jiuhouqingxukongzhiligengcha，rongyiduijiarenyoubaolixingwei。

4、大男子主义心态。 jiqianniannanzunnvbeifengjiansixiangzhijinzaiyixierendetounaozhonggenshendigu，baqizizuoweisiyoucaichan，renwei“qulaidexifumailaidema，renwoqilairenwoda”，yiqieyaoshuncong。tebieshizaiyixienongcundiqu，nanxingbaqizishiweinubi，shaoburuyijiuquandajiaoti。

5、性障碍心态。 xinghexieshiweichihunyinguanxideyigezhongyaoneirong。nanxingdexinggongnengzhangai，daozhixingshenghuobuhexie，jiuerjiuzhi，zainvxingmianqianjiuyouzibeixintai。dannanrendezizunyoushitamenhuibixianshi，yonglengdandetaiduduidainvxing，zaochengnvxingdekumenyuyayi，jiatinghuichuxianlengbaolixianxiang。

6、暴力遗传心态。 youdenanxingdetongnianshizaibaolidehuanjingfenweizhongzhangda，errumurandebaolixingwei，zaitadetounaozhongliuxiashenkedeyinxiang，renweizheizhongfangshijiushijiejuejiatingwentideyizhongfangfa，chengnianhou，huibuzijuediyongzheizhongfangshichulijiatingwenti。

7、自信心缺乏心态。 youxienanxingzixinxinbuzu，wufajieshoupeioushiyeshangdechenggong，zongshiyouyiwuyidebiandiduifangdechengjiu，huozhejiushiguanqimenlaixiuliqizi，yihuodexintaishangdepingheng。

家庭暴力使一个家庭失去了欢乐，失去了亲情，失去了良好的成长环境，在这样的家庭里失去的不仅仅是一个美满的婚姻，也失去了家庭成员之间的心态健康， 鉴于上述深层原因，除非进行心态咨询或心态门诊，否则很难改变。