初次约会要注意什么？初次约会的注意事项

 nannvchuciyuehuiyaozhuyishenme？chuciyuehuishijianlishuangfangdiyiyinxiangdezuijiashiji，nannvshuangfangdouxianghaohaobiaoxian，neimezenyangdechuciyuehuishijigeyouzirandeni？chuciyuehuidezhuyishixiangnixuyaolejieyixia。

chuciyuehuiyaozhuyishenme？chuciyuehuidezhuyishixiang

1.干净舒服的外表

 ganjingdetidewaibiaoshidiyiyinxiang，shizijizixindediyibu，yeshiduiduifangzunzhongdediyibu。chuciyuehuijianlidiyiyinxiangdezuijiashiji，nannvshuangfangdouyinggaibawohaozheidiyiyaojian。

2.保持自信

自信能够让一个人变得变得更有魅力，自信的人给人的感觉也是更加的阳光向上的，虽然人们都喜欢自信的人，但是，在 第一次约会  shi，nihaishiyaobawozixindedu，buyaorangzixinbianchengleziman，yaorangtamingbainihenqianxutanran，danshihenyouzixinxin，tongshiyaozhuyiqianwanbuyaopengzhangziji，zheiyanghuirangduifangganjuebuan。

3.少谈自己的往事

chuciyuehui，liaotianhenzhongyao。jinliangshaotanzijidewangshi，buyaoguoduodetanlunyiqianshizenmeyang。

 youderenzaidiyicideyuehuizhonghuibuduandetanlunziji，yinweizhiyoutanlunzijicaihuijuedezijiyoushuobuwandehuati，danshizaidiyicideyuehuideshihoushijishangyinggaiyaoshaotanzheiyangdehuati，zheiyangnikeyiweizijiliuxiayigehenshenmideganjue，keyishengdianhuati、shengdiangushi，jiweilailiuxiayigejiyubicilejieduifangdelejie。youshihoubaochiyidingdejuligengxingfugengtianmi。

4.注意对话的交流性

 yexuyouderentianshengjiuhenshanzhangshuohua，yexihuanshuohua，danshijiusuanzheiyang，zaichuciciyuehuideshihouyeyaozhuyi，buyaoziguzideshuogebuting，yaozhuyiduihuadejiaoliuxing。zaidiyiciyuehuideshihou，liangrenjiaoliudehuatiyaoyouqu，yaozhuyijimin，zuodaoyanmingshoukuai，lianggerendangzhongrenheyifangdoubunengzuoduzhanxingdezhudao。

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5.不要让对方觉得你很忙

 chuciyuehuishi，ruguojirenyizhongnifeichangmangliudeganjue，neimeyidinghuirangrenjuedebutaishufu，erqiehuirangrenganjuefeichangdebutashi，yizhiyutahuicaixiangyihoudeshenghuokenenghuibiandebuwending。ernizaichuciyuehuishiyaozhuyidejiushi，yaojirenyizhongfeichangshufudeganjue，suiranshuobushiyaokeyiquzhuang，danshizhishaobuyaorangbierenjuedegennizaiyiqihuifeichangleijiuhao。

chuciyuehuiyaozhuyishenme？chuciyuehuidezhuyishixiang

6.发自内心的关心

chuciyuehui，tebieshinanshenggengyinggaiyoushenshifengdu，zuoduoyixiegongke，congzhengtishangbawozhuyuehuidequanju。

 yuehuiqianyingzuohaozhunbei，pirushixianchaxuntaxihuanchishenmecaishi，zaibujiuxianyudingjijianqingdiaojishipinbutongdecanting(dangranjizhongzaitongyiqunei)，haorangtajieshixuanze，zheiyangziranlingtagandaonishirucidexinxiruchen，zuizhongyaodeshineifenfazineixindechengyi，nikaichemen，lazuoyi，songtahuijiadengzhanshifengdudejihuijiugengjiaburonghushile，jizhu，tahuitebieliuyijijiguanizaizheixiexijieshangdebiaoxian。

7.不要着急下定论

 chuciyuehuishijianliyinxiangheguanxidediyibu，danshichuciyuehuibingbunengwanquankanchuyigeren，suoyibuyaozhejixiadinglun。buyaojianmiancaiyi、lianggexiaoshijiujizheduitaxiajielun。diyiyinxianghenzhongyao，dandiyiyinxiangbingbudaibiaotadequanbu。luyaozhimali，rijiujianrenxin，niyaoduojiaowangjici，manmanguancha。diyicijianmianshimeigerendoubazijideyimianzhanxianjiduifang，kuangqieniyaomingbaiyouxierendebiaoyannengliyehenqiang。zhuyi，buyaotaiji，jiniyejitajicijihui。

8.注意精神上有点问题的人

和这种类型的人长期交往下去会有很多不愉快的事情。例如，第一次约会时告诉你他如何憎恨自己的妈妈，刚见面一个小时就开始大谈自己的理想和抱负等等。所以，假如你心里有什么怪异的感觉，不要忽略它，要慎重考虑。