男友沉默内向不懂关心人 我该分手吗

 lianaiqijianwomenchangchanghuifaxianyixienvshengzaiyu nanyou jiaowangshihuiyouyixiexinggechongtushangdewenti，birunanpengyoubijiaoneixianghechenmo，meicigentashuoshenme，tazongshiyingfuleshi，budongdeguanxinren，mianduizheizhongqingkuangwomengaizenmebanni?

网友问题咨询

 laoshi，ninhao，wohewonanpengyoushigaozhongtongxue，yikaishiwojiuzhidaotabushineizhongxinggehuopoderen，bijiaoanjingchenmo、neixiangyidian，gaozhongdeshihoutongxuemendoupubianzheimejuede，buguoyeyourenshuotatingyouyoumoxibaode，danshiwobijiaoshaojiandaotadezheiyimian。tashishangdaxuedeshihougenwobiaobaide，womenzaitongyigechengshi，danshijuliyetingyuan，neishihougangshangdayidewojuedesuirantongzaiyigechengshidanshijulitaiyuanyehuiyouyidiliandeganjue，suoyitagenwobiaobaideshihouwoyemeiyoudaying，xiangzhejiuzheimezuopengyouyetinghao，danshizhihouwoyouganjuededaotayizhizaimomodiguanzhuzhewo，zheirangwoyouxiegandong，yerangwoyouyizhonganquangan，zaihoulaiwomendoudaxuebiyele。lidegengjinleyixie，suoyizaipengyoudecuohexiawomenjiuzaiyiqile。

 kenengshiwomendoushichulianba，gangkaishiwohenmiantian，bugangentashuohenduoshi，tayoushigeneixiangchenmoderen，huayebuduo。suoyimeiciwomenchuquchifandouhuiyouanjingdeyouxiegangadeyiduanshijian，gangkaishiwoxiangyaopojiezheizhongganga，yushiwohuihennulidezhaogezhonghuatiqudapoanjing，xiwangwokaigehaotounengbaqifendiaodongqilai，yerangtanengduogenwoshuoshuohua，danshimeiyiciwodenulidoushishouhuoshenshao，tajihubugenliaowozijidexinlihuaheguanyutadeshenghuogushi，meiyiciwowenyigewentitayeshisuibiandayiliangjuranhouyoumeihuale，yuehuijieshuhoutahuisongwohuiqu，danshizheixieguochengzhongwomendadoushihoudoushiananjingjingde，danshiniyaozhidaozheibufuhewodexingge，wohuishoubulezheiyangdechangjing。

 yinweitaconglaibuhuizhudongfaduanxin，dadianhuagenwoliaotian。jishifaduanxinle，dadianhualedoushiwenchifanmei，zaiganshenmezhileide。jiexialaijiumeishenmeliaole，wohenxiangduozhaoyixiehuatiliao，danshiduizhetazheiyangdexinggewoshizaishijuedezijiwulijiejuezheixiewenti，yebuzhicongnalixiashou。woxinlimeicidouhenxiangwomenkeyiliaodeshendian，henxiwangtazhudonggenwoshuo，neiwoyehuigentashuole。danmeicidoubukaikou，suoyimeiciguadianhuale，jiujuedehenshiluohenbushuang。zhoumowoyehuizhudongzhaota，dantahenshaohuilaiwozheibianzhaowo，erqietajingchangyinweigongzuopeixunhechucha，zaizheixieshijianli，tayetingshaozhudonggenwolianxide，zheishiwohaishihuizhudonggentalianxi，danshidedaodehaishiyiyangdejieju，yizhiyilaiwomenjiuyizheiyangdefangshijiaowangzhe。

 manmandi，wojuedewomenzhendemeihuatiliao，xianzaidewentishiwojiusuanshiyoushenmeshiqingyebijiaobugentashuole，yinweiwozhidaojishishuoletayebuhuijinishenmejianyi，yebuhuigenniliaotianfenxiangzijidexinshi，wojuedegenzheiyangdetazaiyiqitaiyayile，womendoumeiyouyibanlianrenzhijianjianmiandeneizhongtianmiyuqinni，danshibijingnengzaiyiqiburongyi，suoyiwoxiangwenwenzixunlaoshi，mianduizheiyangchenmoneixiangbudongdeguanxinrendenanpengyou，wogaifenshouma，ruguobufenshou，woyougaizenmezuocainenggaibianzheiyangdeqingkuang?

（nanyouchenmoneixiangbudongguanxinren，wogaifenshouma？）

解答：

 nihao，niyeshuolenidenanpengyouxinggebenlaijiushichenmopianneixiangde，erqieniyeyouganjuedaojiaowangzhiqiantayouzaimomoguanzhuni，congzheiyidianlaishuotahuoxuyeshizhendexihuannide，zhishiyinweishimeigerendejinglibutong，duiniyoushichulian，suoyizaibiaodafangshishangchuxianwentiyeshiyoukenengde，danshigenjuxinggedinglun，yigerendexinggexiangyaozaichengnianzhihougaibianshihennande，buguoleisizheiyangdelianaiwentiruguoxianzaibujiejue，neimetayihouyehuiyizhicunzaibingqiekunraozheni，zongjielaishuo，jiushiwojuedeniruoshibuxiangfenshou，neimejiuchenxianzai，chenzhenimenhaimeiyouxianrutaishen，changshizhequjiejueyixiazheigewenti，zheixiewentizaichuqiwangwangbijiaorongyijiejue，nikeyichangshizhecongyixiajigefangmianfaxianbingjiejuewenti：

1、直接了当的告诉他

 xintaixuejiazhichu：“daduoshudenanrendoushenaizijideqizi，danshi，tamendefangfadaduoguban。”dangtanqingshuoaishi，nanrenhuibuzhisuocuo，eryixienvrenzecuowudibazheizhongfanyingshiweimeiyouganqingdebiaoshi。qishi，duoshuzhangfudouxiwangtaohaoqizihuoshiyutamenfenxiangqinmideganshou，raneryihandequeshiqizideqinggan、yuyanjiganshouyutabutong。lianaiyeshiruci，ruguoninenglijietadechenmoneixiang，ruguobukeyi，neijiuzhizhijieyixiegaosuta，sheiyebushitaduzilidehuichong，meiyourenzhidaotadexiangfa，yaoshizheshuochulai。ruguotabuxiangaosunitashizenmeyihuide，niyemeibanfayihuiya!

2、男人感情含蓄

 nannvyouyubutongdeganshoujibiaodaqingxudefangshibutong，jingchangrongyichanshengwujie。dangnvrenshangxinshiyishi，xiwangzhaorenqingsu，ruguotadezhangfubuyuanyiting，tahuifeichangshiwang，bingqierenwei zhangfubuguanxinta。shishishizaiqianyishizhong，nannvduiqingsuyoubutongdekanfa：jiuqizieryan，xiangyigeshenbiaotongqingderenqingsu，zuyilingtagandaoanwei;danzuozhangfude，tanhuademudeshizaiyujuedingxia yibudexingdong。ruguotajuedeqingkuangbuyunxutabangtajiejuenanti，neitaningyuanbutingjiaoweihaoguoyixie。zhangfurenwei，qingganshiyongxingdongbiaoshide，danyongyanyushibugoude。

3、找到你们之间的那个点

 cheernixuefusijishuoguo：“aishiyuqiuheganqingdediaohe，erjiehundexingfushilaizifuqiwende‘xinxinxiangyin’。”fuqizhijianzhiyouzhenzhengxianghulejie，cainengdadaoxinxinxiangyin。

 butongdegexingyounaxiexintaitedian，weishenmerendeqizhi、xinggegebuxiangtong，gezhongbutongqizhihebutongxinggederendouyounaxiebutongdexintaitezheng。ruguowomennenggouduitamenyousuorenshi， jiehepingshiduiairenzhangqixitongdeguancha，jinxingzonghefenxipanduan，jiuhuizhidaoairenshuyunayizhongqizhihuonayizhongxingge，zheiduiyulejieta(ta)deneixinmimishishifenyouyide。

 liru，zhidaoairen deqizhishidanzhizhi(jixingfenxing)，qixintaitezhengweigaodudefanyingxing、zhudongxinghefanyingsudukuai，tongshihaiyourongyibeijinu，xingqingjizao，haofapiqi，quefanaixindengtedian。zheizhongleixingderende neixinshijiebijiaorongyicongtamendewaibiaohexingweishangbiaoluchulai，jixinuxingyuse。zhiyaoduijuyouzheizhongqizhideairenjinxingxixindeguancha，yibandoukeyilejieqixinlingshenchudeyinsi。xiangfan，ruoairen shuyuzhanyezhixing(jianjingxing)，qiminganxinghefanyingxingdi，quefazhudongxing，kebanneixiang，qingxuxingfenxingdi，yushibulushengse。dongchazheizhongqizhiderendeneixinshijiejiubijiaofeili，duizheizhongqizhi deairenbujinxuyaoxizhiruweideguancha，haiyaojiyugengduodeai，duoguanxinduotitie，xiangfangshefayoudaota(ta)baxinlihuajiangchulai。zhiyaozhaochunengcushinimenjiaoliugoutongdeneigedian，woxiangsuoyoudewentidouhuiyingrenerjie。

4、什么办法都没用

 ruoshinijuedezijijinlile，yongjinleyishangshenzhiqitagengduodegezhongfangfa，kukoupoxinyemeinengdaponiheninanpengyouzhijiandeneizhongchenmoheganga，tazhidaolenidesuqiuquehaishimeiyourenhegaibian，erniyebunengzuochugaibianqushiyingtadechenmoneixiangdehua，neimewoxiangnimenkeyikaolvfenshoule。jiranbicidoubuyuanyigaibian，neimehebuhepingfenshou，neiyangshuobudinghainengzuopengyouni。