哈师大行知青年讲坛：和冷爱老师一起解开创业和恋爱的谜团

　　zaitantaohunyinhezhongshideqingjingxia，yigeguangfandewentijiushi：laogongquzhaoxijiaonvsuanchuguima？zheigewentiyinqileduidaodeyujiexiandetansuo。qizhongyifangkenengrenwei，zhiyaomeichanshengshizhishangderoutiguanxi，zheigenbenwufasuanshichugui；erlingyifangzejianchirenwei，zheizhongzuofazaoyiweibeilehunyinchengnuoyuxinren，guishuyuchuguideyizhongxingshi。zheigewentidechayijiangjiedaibiaozherenmenduihunyinjiexiandechayiguandian，yetixianchulebiciduilingyibanmanyidudechayiqidaihelijie。

　　zhangfudegerenxingweishibushisuanshichuguiyizhishiyigebaoshouzhengyitaolundehuati。dangqianshedaozhangfuquzhaoxijiaonvshi，zheigewentigengfuzale。youderenkenengrenwei，jinjinquxijiao，bingmeichanshengshizhishangdexingxingwei，yinersuanbushangchugui。danshi，zaizheigewentishang，dajiayinggaikaolvgengduozhongyinsu。xiabianjiangtaolunhaoduogeyouguanhuodongdezhuti。

　　不一样见解：道德与界限

　　laogongquzhaoxijiaonvsuanchuguima，danglaogongquzhaoxijiaonvzheizhongxingweichuxiandeshihou，dazhongdejianjiehuifenchengxiangfandefangxiang。yixierenkenengrenwei，zhiyaomeixingshenghuo，zheibingbusuandeshangchugui。zaitamenkanlai，chuguibixushejidaoganqingzhongdepanbian。danshi，bierenhenyoukenengjianchirenwei，bulunshiroushenhuoshijingshencengmiandechupeng，zhixuyuanyuanchaoguolehunyindejiexian，jiukeyikanzuochugui。

　　对婚姻界限的认知

　　nantidehexinjiushiduiyuhunyinjiexianderenzhi。hunyinzhenduimeiduifuqilaishuohaishiyouzhebutongdehanyiheqidai。yixierenjuede，hunyindejiexianyingdangkeyichengzhiwei，bunengyunxurenhefangshidechupenghuoaimeixingwei。erlingyixierenhenyoukenenggengweibaorong，juedehunyinguanxijianlizaixianghuzhijianxinrendeqiantishang，zhiyaomeichanshengshenrudepanbian，zenengjieshouyidingchengdudewaibujiuchanbuqing。

　　信任和服务承诺

　　zhangfuquzhaoxijiaonvhaizigerenxingweihuirangfuqizhijianderentonghefuwuchengnuochanshengyingxiang。hunyindoushijiyuxianghuzunzhonghezhongshilide，ruguochuxianlezheizhongxingwei，nengjiairenjingshenshangdaozhishenshendisunhai。zaihunyinguanxili，fuwuchengnuoyeshifeichangzhongyaode，erheqitarenyouyixieqinjindejudongyibanhuibeichengzuoweibeilezheiyifuwuchengnuo。

　　彻底改变出轨

　　zaizheigeshidai，hunyinhechuguizheigegainianzhengbeichedigaibianhezhongxinsikao。bansuizhesixiangdezhuanxing，dajiakaishikaolvhunyindejiexianshifougaigengjiagaoxiao。yixierenrenwei，zhixulianggerenzaihunyinzhongbaochizhenchenghejiaoliu，jiububiguoyujuxianyuxiangzhangfuquzhaoxijiaonvneiyangdexiaoshiqing。danshi，bierenquerenwei，zhenduihunyinjiexianrichangweihushihenzhongyaode，takeyiquebaofuqiganqingdewendingxinghezhongshi。

　　结果

　　laogongquzhaoxijiaonvsuanchuguima，zongdelaishuo，zhenduizhangfuquzhaoxijiaonvshibushisuanshichuguiwenti，meigerenbutongdekanfaheguandian。buguanshijienahuoshidizhi，zuizhongyaodeshifuqiliangrenkeyijinxingduiwaikaifang、zhenchengdejiaoliu，bingqiezaihunyinzhongdachengyizhi。butongleixingdehunyinguanlianyouzhebutongdejiexian，guanjianzaiyubicikeyizaizunzhongyulijiedeqiantixiaweihubaoyangbicizhijianderentonghezhongshi，yichuangjianpingwenerxingfudehunyinguanlian。