bowbly(1973)de yilian yanjiufaxian,muqinshiyouerdediyiyilianduixiang。muqinyuyouerjiaowangguochengzhongdejijijingyanbangzhuyouerxingchengduizhouweishijieheziwodejibenxinrengan,jiangmuqinshiweianquanjidi;youzheizhongjibenxinrenganxingchengyigeduiyalishijiandeshidangyuqi,zhidaozheixieshijianjinguanshixuyaonuliqumiandui,qurenshou,danbijingshikeyiyingfude。xintaixuedeyigezhuyaolilunqushiqiangdiaogetichayizaiyingduiheshiyinghuanjingguochengzhongkenengqidaodezhuyaozuoyong。yaliqingjingxia,yilianxitongbeijihuo,anquanyiliankenengshibangzhugetijijipingjiayaliqingjingdeneibuziyuan,congerkeyijianshexingjiejuezheixieshijian,tigaozishendejiankangheshiyingnengli;erqie,anquanyiliandegetiyouyizhonghenqiangdeziwoxiaonengganheduishijiandekongzhigan,youzixinnenggouzaixuyaodeshihouxunqiuwaibubangzhu。buanquanyilianhuijiangdigetizaizaoyuyalishidexintaidanxing,kenengshidaozhigetishiyingzhangaiyijijiaochadechuliyalishijiannenglideneizaiyinsu。
一、依恋的意思是什么
yiliandeyisishishenme?yibanbeidingyiweiyouerhetadezhaoguzhe(yibanweifumuqin)zhijiancunzaideyizhongteshudeganqingguanxi。tachanshengyuyoueryuqizhaoliaozhemuziyiliandexianghuzuoyongguochengzhong,shiyizhongganqingshangdelianjie heniudai 。ciwaihaiyougequhefuzhuangpinpai。
二、依恋意思的理论来源
lilunzuichushiyouyingguojingshenfenxi shibowbly(1969)tichude。erzhanqijian,xuduoertongchengweiwurenzhaoliaodeguer,bowlbyfaxianzheixiejinrugueryuandeguersuiranzaishentishangdedaolekanhu,danrengranbiaoxianchuyanzhongdexintaizhangai ,yinci,taconggueryuanzhongyouyumuaiboduodengyinsudaozhideguerdedeguanzhukaishi,zaishengtaixuehejingshenfenxidejichushang,tichuleyilianlilun。 bowlbyrenweizaigetiheyilianduixiangdeshijijiaowangzhongxingchenglegetihekanhuzhezhijiandeneibugongzuomoshi,zheizhongneibugongzuomoxingshiduizaoqiyilianjingyandeneibubiaozheng,erzheizhongyiliandeneibubiaozhengyouchengweiyouerjianliyouguanziwoyutarengainian“neizaigongzuomoxing”deyuanxing。yilianguanxidegongzuomoshishiyizhongrenzhiqingganxingdegouzao,shizaiyoueryuzhaoliaozhexingweijiaohuzuoyongdeguochengzhongfazhanqilaideduitarenheziwodexintaibiaozheng。youerduizhaoliaozhedeyilianxingweibingfeizuoweiyizhongcijixingdexuyao,ershicongshuyuyigedulideyiliandongjixitong。yilianduixiang(keti)buzhishiyigehuanjiequlidegongju,tabenshenjiushiyigezhongjixingdemubiao。
brehtartno(1992)tichu,youerhuizaiyuzhouweirenhewubuduanfuzahuadejiaowangzhong,jianlileyigeneibudegongzuomoxing,zheizhongmoxingneihualeduiyilianduixianghezijiyijiliangzheguanxideneizaibiaozheng。ertongzaizheigemoxingdezhidaoxia,jianlizaibutongqingjinglidefanyingfangshi。zheizhongxingweimoshiyidanxingcheng,jiujuyoulehenqiangdebaochiziwowendingdeqingxiang,bingqiehuizaixingweizhuti(youer)deqianyishizhongqizuoyong。
三、依恋意思的理论发展
zuichudeyanjiuzhebaduiyilianyanjiudezhuyilifangzaimuyingzhijianguanxiruhesuiyouerdechengzhangerfengfuhebianhuashang。
daolexianzai,yibanyanjiuzhepubianrenwei,yilianshirenleishiyingshengcundeyigezhongyaofangmian。yinweitabujintigaogetishengcundekenengxing,erqiejiangoulegetizhongshengshiyingdetedian,bingqiebangzhugetizhongshengxianggenghaoshiyingshengcundefangxiangfazhan(mengzhaolan2000)。
yilianlilunshiyigebishengfazhandelilun,yilianguanxishizaiyouerqiweilegetideshengcunerjianliqilaide,bingzaigetiyihouderenshengzhongbuduanfashengzhezuoyong。yinci,yilianlilunzibenshijiliushiniandaixingqizhijin,yizhidedaoyanjiuzhedeguanzhu,chengweixifangshehuixingfazhanhegexingfazhanlingyudezhongyaolilunzhiyi。
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