没心没肺才能活得不累

 meixinmeifei shiyigehanyuchengyu，yizhiweibudongnaojin，meiyouxinji。erzhideshiyixielengkucanren、xinhenshoula，shenzhiduidaiqinren、pengyoushouduandoujiqiedu，quefaganqingsecai。meiyouchangrendexinuaile，zheileirenshenbianwangwanghenshaoyoupengyou。

一、没心没肺的解释

1、基本解释

 yizhiweibudongnaojin，meiyouxinji。laoshe《sishitongtang》erjiu：“ landongyang shigewuliaoderen， laoer yeshigewuliaoderen；keshi landongyang wuliaoeryouyexin， laoer wuliaoermeixinmeifei；suoyi laoer chilekui。”

 《beijingwenyi》1979niandi11qi：“zhunshiwoneimeixinmeifei，fanshidoubudayousuoweidepaitourangtagandaolexuanxin。”《huacheng》1981niandi6qi：“ yuyuanzhang 、 yechuzhang heneiweimeixinmeifeideqianjinxiaojie yemingzhu ，jiuyaozuozhewuheiyouliangdexiaojiaochezhikaijinyuanzililaile。”zheijiushimeixinmeifeidejieshi。

lizi：woshuonizenmezheimemeixinmeifeide!

[ungrateful;heartless]∶meixingan;meiliangxin。

2、成语出处

laoshe《sishitongtang》：“jiaruolaoermeixinmeifeidezantongciyini？tayehuizhiquciyizao，xiabuweili。”

3、成语用法

zuoweiyu、dingyu；zhirenmeiliangxin。

4、从心态学角度看

 “meixinmeifei”yu“mamuburen”yisixiangjin，zaixuduorenkanlaishigebianyici。zheizhongrenjishigangailepiping，xiaduohuieryoumeishirenyiyang，genpangbianrenyoushuoyouxiao;gensheidouaitaoxinwozi，yebuguanrenjianengbunengjieshou;xingshiweirenbuzhidaohaipahuohaixiuweihewu……dansuhuashuodehao，“sharenziyoushafu”，womenbunanfaxian，zheizhonghuodebijiaocuxiantiaoderen，wangwanggengletianpai，shenzhigengzhangshou。

 congxintaixuedejiaodukanlai，“meixinmeifei”shijindaicaichuxiande、duiguorenhanxuxinggedeyizhongxiuzheng，yousanfangmiandeyoudian:renzhishang，nengjienazijihetarendequedianhecuowu，；liliwaiwaidefumianpingjiadoubuhuiwangxinliqu，neng“xiangfengyixiaominenchou”;qingxushang，xinqingbijiaowending，yexiangduibijiaojiji；xingweishang，dadanzhudong，bijiaotancheng，buweixijiesuokunrao。

 youyanjiubiaoming，zheizhongjiandanderenqimianyiliwangwangbiminganzhegao，rutuoyezhongkangtishujiuhuibijiaoduo。erqie，meixinmeifeiderenbuhuiyinweitaiguoyuyayiertongku，yehennanyinweitaiminganerjiaolv。jiashangtamenzhudonggoutongdetedian，wangwangnengzhengqudaogengduoyouyishenxindeshehuizhichi。

 yinci，lianpitaiboderenpingshikeyiduogenzheizhongrenjiaoliujiechu，manmanmofangherentongqixingweizuopaiyiyixiaguanzishibeifuwuyuanhulvele，jishiyikaishibuhaoyisikaikouzhaohuan，dangenzheneixiedandaderen，yehuixuezhekaishiyongganzhengquzijidequanyile。lingyifangmian，minganderenyaoxiangzheizhongrenxuezixin，duowajuezijideshanguangdianhechengjiugan，shaobeibierendeyanguangzuoyou。dangran，meixinmeifeiderenyehenrongyiyinweitaiziwozhongxin、bushanyutiliangtarenganshou，erchuxian“renjiweiji”，yinciyeyaoduotingtarenfankui，buduandiaozhengzijidemingandu。

二、没心没肺的故事

 huashuomeixinmeifei——shenmeshimeixinmeifei？jiujingshenmeshimeixinmeifeini？yourenshuo：“shalishaqi、huhututudihuozhe，buhuitailei；buguofenyaolianzi，lezuofanren，nengjiankangzhangshou。”yourenshuo：“ruguozhendezuodaomeixinmeifeiqishihennan”。yourenshuo：“biaomianshangdemeixinmeifei，caishizuirangrenxintengde”。yeyourenshuo：“zhenzhengdemeixinmeifeijiushiquexinyanzi，henquexinyanzi。”yeyourenshuo：“meixinmeifei，shizijibulei，pangrenlei。”yeyourenshuo：“suixin，suiyuan，suiyi。”youderenshuo：“zhenzhengdemeixinmeifei，zhihuizhaoshoumaming。”meixinmeifei，henerderen，huoxujibierendeganjueshikuailede。danneixindeganshouzhiyouzijiqingchuba？qishiwomendaduoshudoushiyileiren，biaomianxixihaha，wusuowei，haoxiangmeixinmeifei。danshineixindeminganhecuiruo，zhishimomoyigerentihui，chengshou。meixinmeifeidewomendouyouzheimeyigexiaoxiaodeyuanwang：yishengkuailexingfu。meigerendouxiwangnenggouyishengkuailexingfu，danshishenghuobijingshishenghuo，youzheshubujindexinuailehegouhekanke。yidanyongxinle，zaiyile，zhudingyaosuizheshitaifazhanerqifuqingxu、lvdongxinsihebianhuahuxi。youshihou，zaiwomenzuixiwangdedaopingdengdeaidezuiminganshike，dedaodequeshishanghaihelengmo。jiangyigemeixinmeifeidegushiba，womendexinqingyidebeinongdexianxuelinli，yizhenzhenzhandoumamu，quanshenxinjingluanchouchu，tongchexinfei。henzhangdeshijiandexiubucainengmianqiangyanhaoshangchu，zhibameitianxintongdedusutongtongguandaozuishenchu。yongjiudebahenrangrenwangerquebu，congciwomenzhidaowomenxuyaotingxiayiweidanchunhemengdongdejiaobu。henduoshihouwomenningyuanmeixinmeifei，yinweiguoyuyongxinzehuodetailei，nandehutucainengkuanronghexiaohuadiaowomenyouxiebubiyaodeshishifeifei。womenzhixiangqingsongshenghuo，buxiangneimelei。qishiwomenzhidao，meixinmeifeizhishiyizhongshenghuodezhihui，tarangwomenouerxuyaobayiqiedanranmiandui。 meixinmeifei，cainenghuozhebulei。 zheishishangqishiyouxuduojiandandexingfu，erwomenzongshijiujieyuneixiefuzadekuaile。qianwangemeilideweilai，dibushangyigewennuandexianzai。