为什么男友没以前那么爱我了？

　　nanrenchuguizenmeban，yingduinanrenchuguidezhuangkuang，kenenglingrengandaoshenshendishanghaizaodongbuan。danshi，zuizhongyaodeshizenyangchulizheiyiwenti，bianyuxiufuzizunxinbingweichiguanxiwending。benwentaolunyixiejiejuenanrenchuguidefangshi，baohanjieshouxianshi、kaizhanpingdengjiaoliu、xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhuyupeiyangxinrendeng。bulunshigenjujianlijiankangdeshenghuoxiediaojizhi、fujianguanxidezhongyaoqianti，haishiyonggerentishenghehuifu，yongyouzhengquedexintaiyufangfa，womenkeyizaicijianliqishenxinjiankanglaogudeganqingdejichu，baituowaiyuchanshengdejiongjing。yiner，laogongchuguibingfeimeifajiejuewenti，womenyaoleguanmianduibingmaijingenghaodemingtian。

　　应对男生背叛，复建信任与关系的有效手段

　　1. 接受现实，体会心态

　　ruguofaxiannanshengbeipandeshishishi，womenzijidediyibushijieshouxianshi，jieshouzheizhongkeguanshishi，biaoshuwomenzijidexintai。yizhihuofourenzijidexinqingzhihuiranggengduodetongkuyujiedi。genjurenzhihejienazijidexinqing，womenkeyizhujianziwoliaoyudeyigeguocheng。

　　2. 建立并维持对外开放而真诚的交流

　　zhenchengdejiaoliushifujianxinrenheguanxideguanjiansuozai。heduifanggoutongdeshihou，yinglingtingduifangdejieshiheyijian，tongshihaiyaobiaoshuzijidexiangfayuxuqiu。genjutanchengdeduitan，jianlidegongshihefuwuchengnuo，nenggouyouliyuxiufufushangdeaiqing，bingzhubufujianxinren。

　　3. 寻找技术专业支持和帮助

　　zaiduidainanshengbeipandeguochengdangzhong，xunzhaozhuanyezixunyuzhichishihenzhongyaode。zhuanyerenyuannengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejiewentidebenzhi，tigongzhichiyujianyi，bangwomennenggougenghaodijiejuetongchuyutiaozhan，bingyuairenyiqifazhanqushiyuchengzhang。

　　4. 重塑自身，探寻心里均衡

　　beibeipanhou，dajiaxuyaohuafeishijianjinglilaizhongsuzishen。genjuzhiliyuziwotishenghegerentisheng，womenkeyixiufuzizunxinyuxinlijunheng。zheijiangbaokuodanduzhuixungerenaihao、canyuxiuxianhuodong、tigaozijidezhuanyejinengdeng。zhongsuzishenbudanyerangwomenzixinxinyuyouyouhuoli，hainengbangzhuwomenzhongxindedaohuodeganheneixindeningjing。

　　5. 再次建立信任的一个过程

　　xinrenshiguanxidezhongyaoqianti，erfujianxinrenxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli。genjujianchibuxiechengxin、baochiyizhi、duixiannuoyan，bingtongguoxianghufuchiyubaoronglaijianlixinren，nenggouzhujianxiububeibeipandeaiqing。yucitongshi，yeyaodongdekuanrongyiwang，danbingbushishuowangdiao，tongshihaiyaokaishebixudebianjieheguanshu，yibaozhangzishendeliyihezizun。

　　6. 运用困境重塑关系

　　beipannenggoubeichengzuoguanxideyicikunjing，dantongshiyeshizhongsuguanxidehaojihui。xiangduiyubicieryan，kunjingnenggoujifachengzhangyugenggaidequdongli，cujinbicizhijiangenghaodilejieheshangxilingyifang，jinerjianligengjiashenru、gengjiayouyiyideguanxi。genjugongtongfendouhezhenchenggongchu，nenggoucongershixianguanxidezaisheng。

　　buguannanrenchuguizenmeban，zhongdianzaiyuruheyongjijizhudongzitaiheshidudefangfaqujiejue。genjujieshouxianshi、duiwaikaifangzhenchengdejiaoliu、xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu、zhongsuzishen、zaicijianlixinrendeyigeguocheng，womenkeyifujianfushangdeaiqing，maixianggengjiankanghexingfudeweilai。