如何降低冷战的伤害，避免不可挽回的局面？

　　yigenanrenchuguidebiaoxianyounaxie？dangaiqingdeqiaoliangzhujiansongchi，tayexugengjiajuyoushuligan，buhuizaibiaoshuwenxinheguanhuai；tahuipinfandehuijueyubanlvkaizhanqinjin，tanxuntuocibikaishentijiechu；tadeshoujijingchangchuzaixinxibaomiqingkuang，youyiweihuzhetagerenyinsi；tajiukaishihaofeigengduodeshijianzaizuoye、shejiaomeitiyouxiyuleshang，erbuyuanyiyubanlvgongdushiguang；tadeyantanjuzhizhongmanmanfashengduiqitanvxingdekuazan，huoshijingchangtiqiyigetedingrenwu；tamendexingweiyuelaiyueshenmi，buhuizaiyubanlvgongxiangdiandiandidi。zheizhongzhengzhaohenyoukenengyiweizhetadechuguixingwei，bixulingmindedongxiyuqingxingdesisuolaipandingyuchuli。

　　兆头一：情绪疏远

　　yigenanrenchuguidebiaoxianyounaxie，chuguidenanrentongchangzhujianbiaoxianchuqingxushuyuandezhengzhao，taduiyubanlvbuhuizaichengxianwenxinheguanaidexintai。guoqudeqinjinhezhenqingbiaoshuriyijianshao，qudaierchengdeshigengduolengmolengdan。tajiukaishifangzhihebanlvkaizhanneixinheqingganshangdegoutongjiaoliu，biaoxianchubanlvdebuwenbuwen，naizhikeyihuibiyuqishuogongdushiguang。

　　兆头二：对身体接触的逃避

　　yigechuguidenanrencezhongyutaobiyubanlvdeshentijiechu，tahuiyouyizhaoliyouhuijuefuqizhijiandeqinmidongzuo。tayexubiaoxianchufuqishenghuodebufuhehuoyanfan，huozhejiazhuangpijuanfanmangyiduobiyubanlvdeshentijiechu。zheizhongxingweijingchangjiushiweilexunzhaozaiwaibuguanxilidadaoneixindeyuwang。

　　兆头三：保密手机个人行为

　　chuguidenanrenyibanhuirangzijishoujiweichixiangduigaoduxinxibaomi。tahuijingchangshanchutongxunjilu、weixinliaotianjilu，anshiqingchuxinxijifangwenjilu，yifangzhibanlvdecaiyi。tadeshoujijingchangsuozhudenglumima，busuibianchushou，yibaozhengzijidexiaomimibubeijiekai。zheileixinxibaomigerenxingweikenengjiushiyinweitaheqitanvxingyizhibaochizhelianluo。

　　兆头四：时间安排转变

　　dangyigelaogongchuguishi，tahuixianshizaishijiananpaishangchanshengbianhua。tahuijingchangjiezhugongzuozhong、shejiaomeitiyuledenggezhongliyou，jianggengduoshijianhuafeizaiyubanlvzhiwaiderenyushishang。tabuzaixiangyaoyubanlvgongdushiguang，manmanshengshufuqizhijianganqingqiaoliang。zheizhongzuofaweilejizishenliuyouyuqitanvxingxiangchukongjianheshijian。

　　兆头五：对于其他女性的赞扬

　　chuguidenanrenhuidaoyantanjianduiyuqitanvxingkaizhanzanyang，youkenengshigongzuozhongdepengyou、pengyouquanlidemouyijiaose，shenzhiluren。tahuirenbuzhuditijitamendeyoushiyumeili，suiranduitamenheduibanlvbijiaoganxingqu。zheizhongyantanjuzhiyoukenengshibiaoshutahebiedenvxingxingchengleqingxulianluohuoshizaiqixuefanggangzhongxunzhaodadao。

　　兆头六：神密个人行为

　　yigechuguidenanrentongchangzhujianbiaoxianchushenmigerenxingwei。tajiukaishiduizishenderichangzhutihuodongzhuanglongzuoya，buhuizaiyubanlvgongxiangshenghuozhongdediandiandidi。tayexujingchangshiyongrenyigaibiandedenglumima，jiqishandiaoheyanzangyuwaiyuyouguanhenji。zheizhongzuofabianchengletabaohuhaozijiyinmidefangshi。

　　yigenanrenchuguidebiaoxianyounaxie，jiarubanlvchuxianyishangzhaotou，likedangxin，kaizhanxinligoutong、xunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu，caikeyiweihuhunyinhejiatingjiqigerenzunyan。waiyubingbushijiejuewentidebanfa，fanershihuihuailianxidedaohuoxian。