识别渣男：一夜情出轨的男友还值得在一起吗？

　　nanrenchuguiyiyanjiukanchulai，zaihunyinshenghuozhong，nanrenchuguishiyigerangrenbeishangdeshiji。erbukesiyideshi，youyixienvrenhaoxiangkeyiyiyanjiukanchuqu。bulunshiweimiaodebianhua，lirumuguangdeshandonghuoshentiyuyandexiweibianhua，huoshizaihebierengoutongjiaoliuhoudetaidugaibian，zheizhongweixiaodezhuanbiandouhuirangxixindinvrenfajuenanrenchuguidejixiang。jinguanzheihuahenyoukenengtingshangquyouyixiefukua，danshitatixingzhedajia，hunyinlidepeihemoqihecuiruoshizhidebeiaixihebaozhangde。nanrendechuguigerenxingweibudanhuiranghunyinshenghuozaochengweihai，gengrongyiweihaifuqijianderentongheqingxujiben。yiner，womendouyaobicizhijiandetihuiheyaoqiuweichilingmindejuechadao，yibimianhunyinlidechuguiqingkuangdefasheng。

　　nanrenchuguizhuangkuangzaishehuishangshiyigebeishouzhumudehuatitaolun。zaifuqiguanxizhong，chuguibudanhuisunshanglingyibandeaiqing，haipohuaifuqizhijianderentonghepeihemoqi。danshi，yixienvrenhaoxiangkeyiqingeryijudifajuenanrendechuguijixiang，jiuhaoxiangshiyouyizhongchaozirannengliyiban。xiabianwomenjiangyaotongguoduibihaoduogeyinsulaitaolunzheigexianxiang。

　　判断力的灵敏

　　nanrenchuguiyiyanjiukanchulai，yixienvrentianshengjiuyoulingmindepanduanli，tamennengzixiguanchananrendejudonghebiaodalaibuhuochuguidejixiang。tamenhuiliuyidaoweixiaodezhuanbian，liruyanyudehanhubuqing、zaijingshenshangmoshenggan，huozhegerenxingweilideturanbupingchang。panduanlidelingmincushitamennengminruidijuechadaonanrenchuguidegailv，erwuxurenhexianzhuxiangguanzhengju。

　　观察到的细腻

　　lingyifangmian，yixienvrenshiyourenzhenguanchananrendeyanxingjuzhilaifajuechuguidejixiangde。tamenhuizhuyinanrenyuqitanvrendehudongxingshi，shibushipinfandeyumouyinvshibaochilianluohuozhechuxianaimeixingweideng。guanchadaodexinirangtamenkeyifaxianyixiebutongxunchangdezhuangkuang，jinercaiyinanrenshibushichugui。

　　爱情的转变

　　dangnanrenchuguishi，tahelingyifangdehunlianguanxiyibanfashenggaibian。yixienvrentongguofenxizijihenanrenzhijiandehudong，yishidaolezheixiebianhua。liru，nanrenkenengmanmanshuyuan、buhuizaizhongshiyuzijidegoutongjiaoliu，huozheduiyuganqingyuelaiyuelengmo。zheizhongbianhuayehuiyinqinvrendejingti，rangtamenyiduhuaiyinanrenshifoucunzaichuguidekenengxing。

　　身体语言的变化

　　shentiyuyanshirenjijiaowangfangmianguanjianfeiyuyanbiaoda。dangnanrenchuguishi，tadeshentiyuyantongchanghuichanshengnairenxunweidegenggai。yixienvrennenggouzixiguanchananrendeshenqing、zishi、dongzuodengfangmianjinxingtuilun。liru，nanrenhenyoukenenghuirenbuzhudiduobiyanguang，huozheyuelaiyueshengyingdijiaolvbuan。zheizhongweixiaodeshentiyuyanzhuanbianduiyuyixiemingannvreneryan，shifajuenanrenchuguidezhongyaoxiansuozhiyi。

　　沟通交流的重要

　　bulunshigenjupanduanli、guanchahuoshifajueganqingheshentiyuyandegaibian，goutongjiaoliuquanshichulichuguiwentidehexin。nvrenfajuenanrenchuguidejixianghou，yinggaihenanrenzhenchengdigoutongjiaoliu，biaodazijigulvhedanxin。goutongjiaoliuyouliyubicigenghaodilejielingyifang，xiubufuqiganqingzhongcunzaidewenti，huozhetanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。

　　nanrenchuguiyiyanjiukanchulai，zaihunyinshenghuozhong，nanrenchuguidexianxiangyigelingrentongxindekeguanshishi。jinguanbunengyigaierlun，danzhishangsuotidaodeyaosuhenyoukenengyouliyuyixienvrenfajuenanrendechuguijixiang。danshi，womenyeyinggaiyishidaole，hunyinlidechuguibingbushiwanquannenggoubeiyiyanjiukanchuqu。weihubaoyangfuqiguanxibixubicigongtongfendou，genjulajinguanxi、xietongpeihedengxingshi，fangzhichuguidechansheng，weichifuqiganqingdewendingxinghexingfukuaile。