女生该如何提升个人魅力顺利脱单？

　　nanrenchuguizuizhunquedebiaoxianshiyizhongxianzhudejudongshujuxinhao，yibanbansuimingxianbianhuahejixiang。zheizhongjixiangnenggoubaohanwuweidehuangyanhemaodundemiaoshu，huranduizishenrongmaodeguodulejie，heqizijiandefuqishenghuohuojiangdilengdan，duiyuheshejiaowangluodeguoduoxinxibaomi，jiqipinfandijiabanjiadianhewaichudeng。zheizhongbiaoxiantongchangtichulenanshengshibushizhongshidezhongyaoxiansuo，danshizuizhongquezhenhaixuyaogengduozhijiezhengjuhegoutong。zaiqingganganqingzhongderentonghezhenchengzhiguanzhongyao，yinerlejiebingdangxinzheizhongbiaoxianjiangyouzhuyuweihubaoyangheqianghuabanlvzhijianderentonghexianghulijie。

　　nanrenchuguizuizhunquedebiaoxianyizhibeishouzhumu，yinweizheiqianshedaoaiqingderentonghedaodelunliwenti。jinguanmeiyigerenqingkuangjigerenxingweigeyoubutong，keshinengcongyixiajifangmianxizhiguanchalejienanrenchuguidejixiang。

　　1. 日常个人行为的变化

　　nanrenchuguitongchanghuiweihaitaderichanggerenxingwei。tamenyexubuzaineimeguanzhubanlvdetiyanyijixuyao，erjingchangshengshuhedanmo。takenenghuihulvejiatingjuhui、qingzhuhuidengguanjianderichangzhutihuodong，bagengduoshijianjinglifangdaowaibiandeshishang。

　　2. 与伴侣的沟通降低

　　dangyigenanrenzhujianwaiyushi，tamenhebanlvzhijiandegoutonghuimingxianjiangdi。tamenyexubuhuizaixiangyaofenxiangzijishenghuozhongdexijie，taobishencengcideduitan，huoshijingchangshiyongshoujigenshejiaowangluo，yiduobizhenshihudonghegoutong。zheizhongxingweihenyoukenengyushizhetamenyizhizaixunzhaobiederendeqingxushiyonghelianjie。

　　3. 行为方式的变化

　　nanrenchuguihou，tamentongchanghuizhanshichuhenmingxiandexingweifangshigenggai。biru，tamenyexumomingqimiaodiduizishenderongmaotaiguoguanxin，changchangxuangouxindeyifu、jiaqiangduanlianhuoshigenggaichuanyifengge。shiweilezaiwaijiexiandegengxiyinyanqiu，laixiyinbiedenanshengdeliuyi。

　　4. 谎言和解释的矛盾

　　dangnanrenchuguishi，tamentongchanghuibianzhihuangyanhemaodundemiaoshulaiyanshihaizidexingwei。takenenghuijingchanggenggaiyanyu，weilenengyanshizijibuzhongshierxugougezhongliyouhehuangyan。zheizhongzuofabiranhuidaozhiyubanlvzhongjianderenkeliekai，zaochengzhengzhihecaiji。

　　5. 夫妻生活的转变

　　nanrenchuguihou，tamenhebanlvjiandefuqishenghuoyoukenengchuxianmingxianbianhua。tamenyexuduixinglengtanhuowuxingqu，jingchanghuijuebanlvdeqinjin，huoshixunzhaogezhongqudaolaimanzuzijishenglixuqiu。zhuyaoshiyinweitamenzaiwaizhaodaoyigexindeqingganyuxingxuqiu。

　　zongtilaishuo，nanrenchuguizuizhunquedebiaoxianshiyizhongxingweibiaoxianjingshenshangdezhuanbian，zheizhongbianhuakezuoweifajuewaiyudegenju。danshi，womenyinggaiyishidaolezheizhongjixiangbingbuyidingshizhengshiwaiyudekeguanshishi，ershiyaojinxingjinyibudegoutongherenshi。duiyuneixiehexiangduiwendingdehunlianguanxieryan，chuangjiangenjuxianghuxinrenhekaifangshidegoutongzhiguanzhongyao，weiyoutongguozhenshigoutonglaijiejuenantibingbaochijiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。