你知道什么才是正确的恋爱婚姻观？

 hunyinaiqing，sheidouxiwangyuanyuanmanman。keshiduoshaorennenggouchengxinruyi，yidingyaoyouzhengquedeaiqingguanhehunyinguancaichijiu。neimeshenmecaishizhengquedelianaihunyin？zenyangpeiyangyiduanqingganhunyin？

一、正确的恋爱婚姻是怎样？

1、什么才是正确的爱情观，爱情也就所剩无几了。夫妻之间也不过如此，根据心态学专家的分析，想出轨的男女占90%以上，难道那都是为了爱情吗？绝对不是的。

 kongzishuodedui：“shi、se，renzhixing。”xiangchuguibushinanrenhuonvrendecuo，neishidazirandezeren，yaoguaizhinengguaidiqiuheyesu。dangjinbushiyuanshishehui，nannvbushiqunjushenghuo，suoyixianzaidewentishi，youlehunyin，jiuyaozunzhonghunyin，lvxingzhangfudezerenheyiwu。fangqizuozhangfuhuoqizidezeren，neishimeiyoudaode，shenzhishiweifadexingwei。

二、怎样树立正确的恋爱婚姻观

1，遵守恋爱道德。

 daxueshengtanlianaishi，zunshoulianaidaodedezhuyaoneirongshixianghuzunzhonglianaiziyou、bicizhongcheng，xingweiduanzhengwenming。juzhiwenming，youfencun，bukesuixinsuoyu，wushishehuigongde。

2，正确处理爱情与事业关系。

 daxueshengzhengquerenshi，duidaihechuliaiqingyushiyedeguanxi，zhuyaobiaoxianzairuhezhengquerenshi，duidaihechulilianaihexueshengdeguanxi，zhengquechulilianaiyujitihuodong、shehuigongzuodeguanxi，zhengquechulilianaiyuqitatongxuetuanjiedeguanxidengfangmian。jianfuzhongrendedaxueshengyingchulihaoaiqingyuxueyeguanxi，zhenxiqingchun，bawoqingchun，shiqingchungengmeihao，gengfuyoujijiyiyi。

3，正确处理恋爱挫折。

 shashibiyashuoguo：“aishiyizhongtianmidetongku。zhenchengdeaiqingbushizouyitiaopingtandedaolu。”aiqingshishenghuozhongmeihaodeshiqing，danzailianaizhongzaoyucuozheshichangyoudeshi。zaichulishiliandewentishang，zhengquedetaidushizuodaoshilianbushide，shilianbushitai，shilianbushizhi。

4，爱情是美妙的。

 tajiaohuiwomenxuduoderenshengdaoli，zuoweidangdaidaxuesheng，yingdangshulilianghaodeaiqingguan，zhengquechulihaolianaiwenti，tongshidangzaoyulianaikunnanshiyeyingbijiaoqiangde，nengtixiandaxueshengsuzhidefangfalaijiejue，zuodaotangtangzhengzhengdelianaidaxuesheng。

三、如何才能做到婚姻恋爱

 hunyindekaishi，womendaduoshihuaizheyuzixielaodemeihaoyuanjing，xiangyaozhenzhengzuodaoquehennan，erhunyinzhongxuyaoqukefuhuozhepaichudiaodezhangaiyeyouhenduo，nixuehuijingyinghunyinlema?keyibaoxianhaoyiduanhunyinburongyi！keyizuodaohunyinlianaigengnan！

 hunyinzhongyouqishixinhun，wangwanghuichuxianfuqishuangfanghuoqizhongyiren，rengranmeiyoushiyinghaogongtongdeshenghuo，haishibarizidangyigerendeshihoulaijingying，fanshizhiguziji，duiduifangyijiduifangdejiarenpengyou，meiyouzuohaojienadezhunbei。

 fuqizhijianqueshiyeyinggailiuyouyudi，rangduifangyousimikongjiandetongshi，zijiyebaochizijidedutegexing，danzheijuebuyiweizheduiduifanglengmo，youqishipiqibuhao、gexingeliedenggengshidaji。zaiyongzhei8tiaolianaifazenijiuoutladuifangdeqinpenghaoyou，yinggaidangchengzijideqinpenghaoyoulaiduidai，nijixiangzheyaoduifangzhaogushandaizijideqinyou，duifangtongyangyeyouzheiyangdesuqiu，yishitongrennenggoujiejuehenduoyincikenengyinfademaodunchongtu。

 jiatingshenghuozhongyaoxuehuihuxiangxiediao，buyaogeziweizheng，duijinqiandefenpeiyeyaoyoushangyouliang，buyaochengweimouyifangde“yiyantang”，duijiatingshourudegongxian，buyaotaiguojijiaosheiduosheishao，zhixuyaojide“jiatingshouruzuizhongdoushiyongyujiatinghuaxiaode”，youqiyouxienvfangbinanfangshourugaodejiating，henkenengchanshengnvxingjuede“buhuasuan”，nanxingjuede“henzibei”dengyingxianghunyinhexiedeqingxu。zaihunyinzhongbuyaotaizhuzhonggerendeshi，zhiyouzheiyangnidehunyincaihuibaoxian，caihuiyoulianaihunyin。

 ciwai，fuqishuangfangyinggaijueduidezhongchengheyoudandang。yuyixingpengyouxiangjiao，yinggaizhudongbixian，gengbuyongshuofashengaimei、chuguidengqingkuang，huaiyiyidanxingcheng，jibianduifangyishiyuanliangle，yebuliyuhunyindezhangjiuxingfu。

四、如何应对情感婚姻里的夫妻矛 盾？

1、日常矛盾，应把握个“度”

 fuqihonggeliannaoyinaoyijianhuoshibianbianzuichaochaojia，zaihunyinlishizaizhengchangbuguodeshi，yongbuzheguoyudajingxiaoguaihuoshanggangshangxian。yaozhidao，fuqizhengshizaimocazhongcaiyuefalejieduifang，yecaikenengzengjinganqing，maodunqishiyeshiqingganhunyindeyizhong。dangran，chaojiazhongguishibuhaode。zuobudaowanquanbimianfuqimaodunhuochaojiadefasheng，neijiuyinggaiyaokongzhiqizhongde“du”，dongdeshikeerzhi，qiebukedecunjinchi，fuqizhijianyongyuanmeiyouzhenzhengdedashidafei，meiyoujueduidesheiduisheicuo。changshiyiqihuiyiwangridewenqing。

 mangliuzhizhong，fuqijiurongyihushilezuoyijianshi，neijiushichangchanghuiyifuqicengjingdelangmanyuwenqing，yushifuqibiandeyuelaiyuemamumeiyoujiqing。yexunizaoyidanwangleshenmeshilangmanshenmeshiwenqing，danghonglianzhihou，dangchaonaozhihou，bufangzhaogeheshideshiji，huozheyouyiwuyijiandaodangchulianaidedifang，yiqizhongwenjiuqing，gouqicengjingdemeihaoshiguanghewenxinhuiyi。xiangqicengyaodeaiyuwenqing，zaixiangyixiangxianjindechaonaoyulengmo，shiduomedekexiao。

2、不记前嫌多诚心赞美对方。

 zanmeishijiejuerenhemaodundezuijiarunhuaji，takeyihuajielengbinghemamu，keyizhongxinhuanqineiketiaotihechoushiderenling，erfuqijiandezanmeiyouqibukequeshao。dangranzanmeihennan，tebieshidangyoulemaodunhenaoleyijianzhihouhaiyouquzanmeiduifang，ruhenengzuodao？dangranzuobudao，gangchaowanjiaxianranzuobudao。dandangnipingjingxialai，xiangyixiangnizhendeyaogenneigegongzhendeairenduikangdaodima？yaorangjiatingbianchenglengbingderenjiandiyuma？changshizhefangxiasuoweidemianzi，duozanmeiduifangyifangmiankeyidadajianshaofuqifashengmaodundegailv，jishiyijingfashenglemaodunyekeyiyoucidedaoxunsuhuajie，zhishaobuhuirangmaodunshikongerpohuaihunyindejibenjiagouyizhiweijihunyindegenji。

3、记得经常给对方一个拥抱。

 fuqiyaozhongranjiqingguangkaozuishibuxingde，bufangshizhelaigeshenshendeyongbao，yexunimenyijinghenjiumeiyouyongbaole，yigeyongbaokeyijiejuefuqijianderenhesuoenyuan。yongbaodeyishunjian，nuandebuzhishibicideshen，gengshineiyilengquedexin。yongbaoyoushirangbu，shikuanrong，shiai，shiqing，shizhonghuanjiqingdexinqidian，laiba，laigeshenbao，nenggongzhenweihequewangleyongbao？

4、别忘了多关心对方亲人。

 wulunwomenzoudaoneili，yebuguanwomenshifouchengjialiye，zaiwomenxinlingdezuishenchuyongyuanyouyigezuirouruandedifang，neijiushifumuqinren。fuqichaojiaqingyongyuanbuyaoshangjiduifangdefumuqinren，yinweineichudaoletahuotazuirouruanzhichu。fanguolai，dangfuqiyoulemaodun，danghunyinchuxianweijishi，bufangduojiduifangfumuqinrenyixieguanzhuguanxinguanzhao，fazineixindeshandaiduifangdefumuqinren。youshihou，shanliangduifangdefumuqinrenbishandaiduifangbenrengengnengdedaoduifangdexin，yegengnengdadongduifangdexin。

5、让孩子做夫妻关系的润滑剂。

 fuqinaomaodunhouyoushichuyuhaomianzi，sheiyebuyuanxianfuruan，jiatingqifenbiandelengdan，henxianranhaizishijiazaizhongjiandewugu“shouhaizhe”，ertongshihaiziyezhengshifuqimaodunxiufukeyiliyongdeyizhong“shouduan”zhiyi。haizishifuqigongtongdegurou，nirenxinrangtashenghuozaibuhexiebuwenxindejiatinghuanjingzhongma？haizishifuqiaiqingdejiejing，yebinengjiqinimendefuqirouqing？youlemaodun，chaojiazhihou，duoxiangxianghaiziba，nimendeqijiunengkuaixiexiao，nimendemaodunjiunengjinkuaihuajie。

6、学会沟通

 lingwaihaiyouzuizhongyaodeyidianjiushi，fuqiyoulemaodunhuochaojiazhihou，yaoxuehuiganqingfuyuan，yaozhidaoruhezhongranfuqijiqing，bukejixiaohuanweidaji，fouzexiaochaoxiaonaoyekenengjianghunyintuixiangsiwangdebianyuan。

 neimefuqiyaoruhecainengzhongranjiqing？bufangshizhecongyixiajigefangmianzheshou，qufupingfuqiyinchaonaodailaideqingganliehen，quxiubuhunyindexiaochuangxiaoshang。liehenhuoxiaochuangshangshishenghuodebiran，guanjianshidongderuhequjishixiufufanyuan，ranhouzhongxinshanglu，rucifuqijiunengchangaichangxin，hunyinjiunengsuilaozhongsheng。