如何拒绝已婚上司的骚扰？

　　yuanliangnvrenchuguidenanrenneixinpouxi，zhenduiyuanliangnvrenwaiyudenanreneryan，neixinzaoshouzheyichangfanzadefenxi。tamenmianduizhefeichangdadeqingganchongjitongchu，bingqieyemianduizhezaicilajinguanxihegerenjiazhidekaoyan。neixinbianhuawuchang，xinxufanza。yifangmian，tamenyexuchangshiyuanliangbingzhonggouguanlian，qidaiwanliushiqudedongxixinlai；lingyifangmian，nanrenhenyoukenengfanraopanbianjizizunsuodailaideyanlidaji，zuozhanzheqingxudeguanliheneixindefenqi。zheiyifenxichudongnanrendexinling，rangtamenmianlinjiannanjueceyuqinggandedanxin。

　　负伤自尊心：困于叛变与个人价值中间

　　nvrenwaiyuduinanrendechongjibudandanshiqingganlidesunhai，yeshiduinanrenzizunxindepipan。shenaidenvrenpanbian，nanrendexinxinhezizunmashangzaoshouyanlidaji。takaishihuaiyizijidutedemeiliheyouhuoli，zhiyizijishibushihaibugouhao，buzuzhidebeiai。zheileixiaojibeiguanhekuijiuzaochengnanrenshenxianneixinzhengtuo，qinfenzhaohuishiquzizunxinhezizun。erzheiyiguochengduinanreneryanchongmanzhewentitongchu，tamenbuxienulishizhongzaizhengtuozhongjian。

　　信赖的分裂：舍弃以往与复建关联

　　nvrenwaiyupohuainanrenzhenduiaiqingyuhunyinderenke。yiqianwutiaojianxiangxindenvrenxianrujinyuelaiyueyichangershengshu，nanrenyiduhuaiyihezhizetamendongjihechengshishouxin。zaimianduizheileifenliederenkeshi，nanrenmianlinzaijuedingshifouyuanliangdejiannanxuanze。neixinchengshoulezhenduicongqiandesheqitongkuyuduiweilaimangran。jiusuantamenchangshijienayuanliang，fujianguanlianyijiushiyichangjianjurenwu。xinlaidefujianxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，nanrenyidingyaodongdezaicifangxiafangbei，zaicitaruchuangjianchengzhiguanliandelu。

　　情感的担心：爱恨之间的交错

　　yuanliangnvrenwaiyudenanrenneixinzaoshouzheqinggandedanxin。aihenzhijianjiaozhizaiyiqi，nanrenjiaizhenvren，youyinpanbianerxincunjiedi。tamenmianduizhehubuxiangrongqingxu，yibianqipanyunvrenxiufuguanxi，yibianyouchenjinyubeishanghaikunanzhong。neixindefanzacushinanrennanyiqushe，kunyufangkaishouhejianchizhongjian。tamenjiqipanxiufucongqiandexingfukuaile，youdanxinyicuozaicuo。zheileimaodunchixuxiaoqianzhenanrendeneixin，rangtamenshenxianqinggandejiongjing。

　　自我提升：从苦难中探寻能量

　　mianduinvrenwaiyu，nanrenneixinfenxidetongshiweizijichengzhangchuangzaoletiaojian。tongkuyuzhengtuobianchengletamentuibiandejinshucuihuaji，rangtamenzhongxinsikaozijidejiazhiherenshengguihua。genjuzhanshengkunnan，nanrennenggoubiandeyuelaiyuewanqianggengjiachengshu。takaishiguanxinziyideneixinyaoqiu，qingtingzijideqingganxiangsheng。zheiyiguochenghenyoukenengmanzhangjianxin，dannanrenzuizhongdouhuicongzheidangzhongjiquliliang，xiufuzishenhouzhongxinxunzhaoshenghuodedongli。

　　yuanliangnvrenchuguidenanrenneixinpouxishiyichangjianxinqiechongmanjiqingdeneixinzhixing。zaimianduipanbianxingshanghaishi，nanrenbudanyaomianduizizunsunshangherenkefenliechongji，haixuyaomianduiqinggandanxinyutongku。danshi，zheiyiguochengyenengchengweinanrenchengzhangyutanxunneixinnengliangdejihui。genjubuxiejianchi，nanrennenggoumanmanfujianziyideziwojiazhiguan，bingqieyigengchengshuhewanqiangzitaimianduirenshengzhongdebodong。