脱单困惑：应该选择与什么样条件的男孩在一起？

　　nanrenchuguishiniantongyirenshuomingshenme？zheigexianxiangtixingleyixieguanyurenxingdezhongyaoguancha。zuixian，tajielulenanrenzaiganqingguanxilidebuquedingyinsu，bulunshiduiwaikaifangzaiyouhuowufadidang，haishiduiyuxinlixunzhaolequdebulizhi。danyucitongshi，zheiyefanyingchurenmenzhenduiqinmiwujianguanxizhongdeyizhongbumanzugan，yijiduianquanganhekekaoxingyaoqiudekaoyan。zheigeanligaojiewomen，zaijianlilezhangqiguanxishi，bixugengjiazhongshiqingganshangdelianjiegoutongjiaoliu，yucitongshisuzaobicizhijiandeyingxiangli，yiweichiguanxixinxianzhangqiwending。

　　1. 副标题：欲望的迫使

　　nanrenchuguishiniantongyirenshuomingshenme，nanrenchuguishiniantongyiren，zheigexianxianghaowuyiwenjieluleyuwangzairenleisiweilidejidatuidongli。renleitianxingzhongdetansuoyuwangyuduixinxianshiwudexiangwangjingchanghuilingrenchixuxunzhaogengduodecijizhuanbian。suiranyutongyigerengongchuhenduoniankenengdailaiwendingxingheanquangan，danduiyuyixienanrenlaijiang，zheileipingwenbingwufamanzutamenneixinduixinxiandehejidongdeyaoqiu。yiner，tamenbuduanxunzhaowaibuyinyouhefangsong，zaochengchuguipinfanchansheng。

　　2. 副标题：关系的不确定性

　　nanrenchuguishiniantongyirenhaiyushizheqinmiwujianguanxilidebuquedingyinsu。zhangqixingdeaiqingguanxizhong，dajiazaisuonanmianzaoyugezhonggeyangtiaozhankunhuo。richangsuosuijilei、goutongzhangai、gerentishengdechabiedeng，douhuiduiguanxikekaoxingzaochengfumianyingxiang。nanrenchuguishiniantongyirenderenzhijiuzuyishuomingzaigezhongkaoyanyanqian，youyixienanrenzhenduibaochiguanxijianchibuxiedenulibugou，erxuanzezhaodaoxindecijixingbingmanzu。

　　3. 副标题：对安全感的向往

　　nanrenchuguishiniantongyirenhaihenyoukenengtixianleneixinduianquanganquebudadaozhuixun。suiranchixuwendingguanxinengdaijidajiaqingxudedalizhichihexinrengan，danduiyuyixienanrenlaijiang，zheileiguanxihenyoukenengyehuibiandeguoduxiguanpingpingdandan。zheixierenzaixinlingshenchuduigengduocijixingyujiqingzaochengqipan，shituyongwaiyulaimibuneixinshenchudekumen。zheizhongzuofashishishangyinggaishianquangandeyizhongduobihetansuoxindecijideyouxifangfa。

　　4. 副标题：关系里的沟通交流和连接

　　nanrenchuguishiniantongyirengaojiewomen，guanxilidegoutongjiaoliuhelianjiedebiyaoxingburonghushi。ruguolianggerenbunengyouxiaodigoutongyubiaoshubicizhijiandexuyao、yuwangyutiaozhan，guanxijiuhuichuxianliefeng。weilebaochichixuwendingguanxi，nanrenbixuyuairenchuangjiannonghoudechuanqizhifuchengxu，jingguozhenchenghekuanrongdegoutongjiaoliu，tuijinbicizhijiandezhangwoherenke。weiyouruci，cainengzuodaozhenzhengdadaobicizhijiandexuyao，jiangdiwaiyudefengxianxing。

　　5. 副标题：重构男士自我认识

　　nanrenchuguishiniantongyirendexianxiangyeyaodajiaduinanrenziworenshidetansuo。jiusixiangzhong，nanrenjingchangbeirenweishixingyuwangqiangjing、shanyutanxianhezhuiqiuxinxiandecijideyouxiyiweizhe。danshi，zheileijiedingshibushiguoduxiaxiao，shibushihulvelenanshiduiwendingxingheanquangandexuyao？womenyinggaizhonggounanshiziworenshi，yindaotamengengjiazhongshiqingganshangdeshenceng，zhuixunzhenzhenzhengzhengdexinlingdadao，bingfeijinjindadaobiaocengdeyuwang。

　　nanrenchuguishiniantongyirenshuomingshenme，nanrenchuguishiniantongyirendexianxiangjinguanlingrenchijing，danhaitigongleduirenxingheguanxideshendusikao。genjulejieyuwangdeposhi、guanxidebuquedingxing、duianquangandexiangwang、guanxilidegoutongjiaoliuhelianjiejiqinanshiziworenshidezhonggou，dajiahuoxukeyigenghaodilejieyuchulixiangjindekaoyan，weichixuwendingguanxidaxiagengjianshidejichu。