6件相亲要注意的事

　　zaidajiaduichuguinantichichayixintaidejintian，youxierenyuanyijieshounanrendouhuichugui，eryourenzejuebuyunxuzheigeguandian。danbuguanyuanyixiangxinshifou，nanrendouhuichuguizheiyixianxiangzishizhizhongcunzaiwomendeshenghuozhong。dingyiqueshishiyouzhengyi，chuguidezhuyaoyuanyinyegeyoubutong，danbudebuchengren，zhenduihunyin、banlvguanxieryan，zhongshiyuxinrenshizhongshizuiguanjiandeshiyongjiazhi。nanrenshibushichugui，zaiyutadezhiliang、daodeguannianyijiduihunyindexintai。wulunduiyunanshihuoshinvxinglaishuo，weichiyiduanshenxinjiankang、xiangduiwendingdehunlianguanxidouyaobicizhijiandenuliyushouwei，xieshougongchuangxingfudeweilai。

　　nanrendechuguizhuangkuangyizhishidajiaguanzhudezhongdianzhiyi。bulunshiguimijuhuitaolundehuati，huoshishejiaopingtaishangdetantao，nanrendechuguijihuchenglehunyinzhongzaisuonanmianzaihuo。danshi，womenyinggaikeguandesikaozheizhongqingkuang，erfeijiandandebasuoyounanrendouguiweichuguideyilei。xialieyinggaishinanrenchuguiqingkuangdeyixieshendusikao。

　　男人都是会诱惑

　　nanshibenxingzhongdeyibufenshimeidezhuiqiuheduoyuanhuadeqipan。womenbeisizhoudeyouhuosuobaowei，wulunshihaoyoudeyouhuohuoshishejiaohuodongdeyouhuo，douhuishinanrenzaoyuchuguideyouhuo。danshi，bingbuyiweizhequanbunanrendoushihuiqucongyouhuo。ershijishang，dabufennanrenzhisuoyinengweichizhongshi，jiushiyinweitamenyouzhezilvheshiminggan，nengdidangzheizhongyouhuo。

　　婚姻的变化

　　hunyinzhongcunzaidewentiyutiaozhan，doushinanrenchuguideyigezhongyaoyinsu。zhangjiudehunyinguanxili，wentibumanyijingchangfasheng，kenenghuiyinqinanrenxunzhaowaibudefuweihebaituo。danshi，zheibingbuhuibianchengnanrenchuguideliyou。zhongshiyunuliyunyinghunyinshimeigerendezeren，yingtongguogoutongyulejiequjiejuewenti，erbushiyongchuguilaiyangaihunyinlidejiongjing。

　　社会思想和文化要素

　　shehuisixiangjiwenhuaduinanrendejudongzaochengzhezhongdadeyingxiang。zaiyixiewenhuali，nanshichuguibeishiweiyizhongquanlihenanzihanqigaidebiaozhi，gengshibeiyouxierenchengzhiweiyouxiaohebimianbuledegerenxingwei。danshi，zheigeguannianshibuzhengquede，chuguizhinengsunhaiairenyujiating。xiangyaogaibianzheigeguannian，womenyinggaigenjuwenhuajiaoyuhetuijinshehuizhuanxinglaisuzaozhengliandeguannian，jiangzhongshiyuzunzhongguiweiyujiatinghunyinzhongdehexinlinian。

　　个人素质和自律

　　zuihou，nanrenshibushichuguizaiyutamenbenshenpinzhihezilv。yigeyouzerenxin、chengshuhejianshouyuanzedenanrenjiangshizhongbingchizhongshidebiaozhun，jibianzaoyuzuiyourenyouhuo。gerenzilvshibaituochuguiyouhuodeguanjiansuozai，zheijiuxuyaonanrenzaidaodeyulunlidaodeguizedebangzhuxia，jianchizijidejiazhongyubanlvchengnuo。

　　nanrendouhuichuguizheiyiguandianshipianmianxingqiebuzhunquede。bukeduanzhangquyidibananrenguiweichuguideyilei。womendouyinggaigenjuzishendelizhiqingxulaitiaoxuanzhongshiyuzeren。zhongshibixuwomendenulihezilv，danduiyunanrenlaishuo，tamengengyinggaijianlizhengquedejiazhiguan，yibaozhangtadehunyinhejiatinghemu。zuihou，zhongshiyuzunzhongjianghuichengweidajianshenxinjiankangerlaogudehunlianguanxidezhongyaoqianti。