如何看待婚前试婚

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一、如何看待婚前试婚

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 qianzhongshuzai《weicheng》zhongshuoguo：“jiehunyihoudemiyuelvxingshicixudiandaode，yinggaixianlvxingyigeyue，yigeyueyihou，haimeiyoubicikanpo，yane，meiyouchaozuifanlian，haiyaoweichiyuanlaidehunyue，zheizhongfufubuhuilihun。”

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 suoyishuo，buguanshixuanzehunqiantongju，haishilvxingshihun，douyaoganyujieshouduifangdebuwanmei，ganyumohelianggerendelengjiao，zheiyangzicaihuishidekaixin，shidewanman。