妻子出轨怎么办？如何正确处理？

 yulequanzhong，fenfenhehenaishichangshi，danshiyouwangyourenweiyinengjingchuguishishishi。mingxingyeshiputongren，zaiyiduanguanxizhong，ruguoqizichuguile，biranshiyouyuanyinde。chuguideqiziqishineixinyeshibeishoujianao，xiamian huazhenqinggan xiaobianjiulaihedajiashuoshuoruhezhengquechuli。

一、拥有更多的共同时光

 qizichuguizenmebanni？henduorendechuantongguanniandoushinanzhuwai，nvzhunei。zhengshiyinweiruci，qiziyibanchangnianmangyuzhaoliaozhenggejiating。danshiyouyuzhangqiyirenzaijia，meiyoulaogongdepeiban，jiuhuijimowuqu，shijianjiulejiuhuixiangdaoquzhaotongbanxiaoqianhuoshiqucanjiayixiejiaojihuodong，congjianeizouchuqu。suoyishuo，nanrenyaoxiangfangfanlaopoyouwaiyu，shouxianjiushiyaoduogujia，duojilaopoanwei。ruguofuqishuangfangmeiyoutaiduodexiangchushijiandehua，qizihenrongyihuiyinweijimoerchugui。

二、别做伤害对方的事

 suiranshuochuguideqizishanghaileshenbianzuiqinjinderen，danshifanshiyeshiyoujiejuedefangfade。youxielaogongzaidezhiqizichuguizhihouhenkuaijiuzhaolexinhuan，jiejibaofu。zaiyoulezheixieshanghaiguohou，laopojiubuhuiba hunyinguanxi kandehenzhong，jiubuhuizhudongdijujuewaijiedeyouhuo。xiangfan，zaiyudaowentihou，keyihaohaogoutongde，gengrongyirangqizihuixinzhuanyi。

三、让自己变得更优秀

 zhiqianwangluoshangjingchangyourenchuanshuoyinengjingchuguicaidaozhiyubanlvlihun，qishimingxingyeshichangren，yehuizaihunyinshenghuozhongchuxiangezhongmaodunyumoca。nanrenyinggairangzijibiandegengyouxiu，zaishenghuohegongzuofangmianburanglaopocaoxin，ziranyejiuhuijianshaolaopowaiyudekeneng。ruguoqizizaihenduofangmiandoubunengzhiwangni，huiyuelaiyueshiwang，daotoulaiyehuijuedehenizaiyiqihenlei。

四、反思婚姻状况

 bushimeigerendehunyindoushiwanmeide，henduorendehunyinzongcunzaizheiyanghuoneiyangdewenti，erchuguijiushizheixiemaodunjizhongqilaidaozhidehouguozhiyi。ruguolaopochugui，nanrenyeyinggailengjingxialaisikaoyixia，zijidehunyincunzaishenmeyangdewenti，shifouzaigoutongshangchuxianleyidingdewenti，naxiefangmianmeiyouranglaopomanyi，jingguozheixiekaolvyihou，huiduiqiziyouleyifentonglixin，yeyouliyuliangrenguanxidexiufu。

五、问清老婆的态度与看法

 yiduanhunyinshifounengweichixiaqu，xuyaolianggerenyiqiqumiandui。nanrenyaowenlejienvrendexiangfa，kankanduifangshiyitiaoluzoudaohei，haishixinlihaiaizheziji，hailiulianhunyin，ruguolaoponengyuanyizhongxinhuiguijiating，neimenanrenyekeyijinliangshuofuzijihuiguijiating，erruguoduifangbuyuanyihuidaolaogongshenbian，neimenanrenhaishiyaojinzaozuodasuan。