和男朋友性格不合我想分手

网友情感咨询：  laoshinihao，woshihuazhendefensi，ganxiehuazhenpingtaiweiwomendehunlianqingganwentitigonglefangxianghejianyi，xianzaiwoyeyudaowenti，xiwanglaoshinengbangwozhidian。

 wojinnian24sui，168/49，yanzhi5fen，chengshihukou，dushengnv，xianzaiguoqishangban。nanpengyoujinnian28sui，175/72，yanzhi4fen，nongcunhukou，youyigegege，daxingqiyechengxukaifagongchengshi。muqianwomenshouruxiangdang，douzai6qianyuanzuoyou。jiatingjingjiwobitagenghao，danshijialirenjieshaoshishuotashiyizhiqianligu，yihouhuiyuelaiyuehao。

 womenxianzaitongjuyinianduole，tashigebijiaoxixinqinlaoderen，baokuojiawuquanlan、gongzijiaojiwobaoguan，duiwohenzhaogu、hentitie、henbaorong。danshizheitongjudeyinianduomaodunyeshihenduo，jiushiwomendejiazhiguancunzaihendachaju。woshigebijiaolangmanderan，xihuanjingzhiyouyadefashicanting，taquexihuanquwumeijialiandexiaocanguan；woxihuandaochuqulvyou，tazongshishuobaqiancunqilaiyibeiyihoubushizhixu；woxihuanyishu，taquezhiguanxintadegongzuo。

 zhiqianquguotanongcunlaojia。pianpierqiehuanjingbuhao，fumuyenianmaiduobing，jiyutadejiatingyuanyinwoyoushihouyehenlijieta。xianzaiwodanxindeshi，muqiantaxianggaixing，zuoxiaoshouyuan，shuozhuanqiankuai。keshixiaoshounanzuo，buyidingrutasuoxiang“zhuanqiankuai”，erqiezhuandaoqian，womenlianggejiazhiguanjiukeyitongyima？shenbianyeyoutiaojianbitahaoderenzhuiwo，danshiwojiupatamenmeitazheimezhaoguwo，baorongwo，xianzaiwoxiangfenshouyoubuganfenshou。

花镇导师 回复：

 qishinizijiyijingyoudaanle，nishijuedenimenbushihe。errangnibugangentafenshoudeyuanyinjiushitaduini“henzhaogu、hentitie、henbaorong”。keshinijuedezheiyangdezhaogu、titie、baoronghuichixuduojiu？nimenjiehunhoutanengzheimeduini？nishengwanhaizitanengzheimeduini？niyihoumanmanbianlaotahuizheimeduini？woxiangshuodeshi，nidechenmeichengbenhuiyuelaiyuegao，nidemv（banlvjiazhi）huimanmanjiangdi，dangnidemvjiangdegentayiyangdishenzhibitadizhihou，tajiubuhuizheimeduinile。

 weishenmetaxianzaineimezhaoguni、titieni、baorongni，wufeijiushinimvbitagao，yanzhibitagao、jiatingtiaojianbitahaodengdeng，sheibuxiangquyigegaomvdelaopo，dangtamvbujinideshihou，tajiutongguozheizhongduinichuchurenrangbaorongdefangshilaimanzuni，rangniganjuelibukaita。

 dewentijiuzaiyunimendejiazhiguan，keyishuonizhuiqiujingshencengmiandedongxi，ertazhuiqiudeshiwuzhicengmiandedongxi。youyujiatinghuanjinghecongxiaodaodadejiaoyuhuanjingdeyingxiang，tadexiangfagenshendigu，tabuhuigaibian，niyebunengshewangtahuigaibian。zheizhongwentizainimenyihoushenghaizizhihou，fenqihuigengda，suoyinimenbuheshi。

 nixianzaibuganfenshou，liulianta，shiyinweitaduinidezhaoguhebaorong，danshiwomenyijingfenxiletabuhuizhangjiudouduiniruci，suoyinigengbuyaotanlian，yigerenzaibierendezongrongxiafanerpiqihuigenghuai，pu（qinzibuquedingxing）huigenggao，yingxiangnibianchengyigegenghaoderen。

对于每一段恋情，不是一定要挽回，不合适还一定要挽回、相恋。在没有结婚前，选择比改变更重要。而如果不是为了爱情，而是某种目的比如金钱、依赖等等，一开始会满足，但长时间下来会温水煮青蛙一样痛苦。女孩子们，永远不要停止追求爱的脚步。