花镇情感：异地恋怎么聊出好感情？

 yidiliandeqinglv，duoshuyiliaoweizhu，suoyilianghaodegoutongjizhiduiyuyidiqinglvlaishuotebiezhongyao，dangran， huazhenqinggan daoshiyaogendajiashuodeshi，goutongyeshimeigerenfazhanguanxibixudejineng。jintianwomenjiuyiyidilianweili，zhenduixingdifenxiangyixia yidilianliaotianjiqiao ，kankanzenmeliaocainengliaochuhaoganqing”。

一、 花镇情感 ：从无话不谈到“吃了吗?”

 lilishiwopengyou，tahenanyoushuaishuaiyijingyidi1nianduodeshijianle，benlaishitongyigexuexiaotongyiyuanxidexuesheng，danzaibiyeneinian，lilixuanzeduyanshenzao，shuaishuaixuanzechengweiyiminggongwuyuan。jiuzheiyang，tamendejulibeixuanzelakaile，bicijiangezheliangzuochengshi，zaifenkaishi，tamenxiangyueyaoyongyuanzaiyiqi，buyaobeiyididabai。

zuikaishidelianggeyue，lilimeitiandouhuiheshuaishuaitongdianhuahuozheshipinliaotian，qinmiwujian，fangfojiuxiangmeiyouyidishiyiyang。

 wowenta：shuaishuaigongzuobumangma?zenmemeitiandouyoushijianpeiniliaotian?tahenjiaoaodihuidawo：gongzuomangdanshimeiyoupeiwoliaotianzhongyaoya!hekuangwotiantiandouhetashuoxiangta，tanalishedebupeiwo。neishideta，duishuaishuaizhuangtaidebianhuahaowuchajue。

 yexushiduguolexinrenshiyingqi，shuaishuaidegongzuorenwukaishibianduole，dangran，jiushulianghenandulaishuo，yezhishihebierenyiyangzhengchangdeshuiping，danshuaishuaishiyingdebutaihao，youxieyingjiebuxia，shenzhihuichuxianyixiexiaochacuo，shuaishuaixinlijileilexuduoyuanqi。

 lilizheibian，yanyideshangxueqikeyeyalibingbuda，lilixinggewaixiang，henkuaijiujieshilejigeguimihaoyou，tahuihemeiyigeguanxihaoderenjiangtaheshuaishuaideguoqu，dajiadouduitamendegushihenganxingqu，yushibianyoule：shashihoudaitalaijianjianwomenya!

zheiyangdehushengyuelaiyuegao，zaijiashangliliduishuaishuaidexiangnian，lilibianquheshuaishuaishuo：renjiahenxiangni~nikeyiguolaijianwoma?

 tingwanlilidehua，shuaishuaiganmangnongwangongzuo，coule4tiandejiaqi，qulilisuozaidexuexiao，jianleyiquantadepengyou，huilaihou，kanzheduijilejitiandewenjian，shuaishuaifaletiaopengyouquan:“ai~youdianlei。”suihoudeshijianli，shuaishuaihelilideliaotianfashenglehendadebianhua，tamendetonghuashijianbianshaole，dangranpinlvhaishiyitianyici，danshishuaishuaiyouzhongxiangkuaidianjieshuhuatideganjue。

 mingandelilidangranjuechadaole，yushitaheshuaishuaibiaodaxiangniandepinlvyuelaiyuegao，jihumeitiandouyaoyou2-3ci“xiangnile~”，suiranshuaishuaidehuiyingyeshi“woyexiangni~”danliliganjueyouxiebuyiyangle。zhihoudebannianshijianli，zhendexianglilidanxindeyiyang，tamenzhijiandeliaotianchuxianlegengduodewenti。

 congqianyiqiguanzhudezongyihequshishuaishuaihenduodoubuzenmekanle，lilihepengyoujiandegezhongxixiaodanaozhongyouqudeshiduibishuaishuaijihuyichengbubianderichanggongzuoshenghuo，xiandegegeburu，tamenzhijianrengranhuimeitianyitongdianhua，danjibenshangbianchengleyibiandaodewenhou：

吃饭了吗?

今天做了啥啊?

嗯嗯嗯...好的!

zheishililizhaodaolewo，tabuzhidaofashengleshenme，weishenmehuizheiyang?（ ）

二、 异地恋聊天技巧 ：不懂聊，让彼此的感情失联!

lilideyihuoyeshihenduoyidiqinglvdeyihuo，zheixieyihuodegenyuan，zaiyutamenshibudongdeyidiliangairuhe“liao”。

1、适当地表达想念

 lilifandedecuowu，jiushitaiguopinfanqiesuiyidibiaodalezijidexiangnian，xiangnianshiyizhongzhuangtai，erfachuqude“woxiangnile”shiyizhongjishideyuyanbiaoda，duifanghuirenweinicishicikezaixiangnianwo。zheibengaishitianmide，danshenghuozhongzheiyangdeshunjianduole，yejiunile、jianjianwuganle，zaishuoxiangniandeshihou，neizhongjidongdexinqingjiuyijingxiaomodaijinle。

 suoyi，shidangdibiaodaxiangnianshifenzhongyao，keyichangshijiangnidexiangnianjileiyiduanshijian，jiangtaxiechengyifengxin，huozheyifengyoujian，chuandajiduifang，zheiyangduifanggengnengjieshoudaonimanmandeaihexiangnian。

2、你的故事，他的心事

 jinglishirenshengzuizhenguidecaifu，yididewomenmeitiandouyoufashengzijidegushi，gushizhongjiazazhesuantiankula，danqueshibicirenzhennulishenghuodezhengming。duohenidebanlvliaoliaozuijinfashengdeyixiegushi，zainishenbiande、huozhenidetongnian、huozhezuijinfashengdeyixieshiyinqinidegongminghuogankai......

 zheixie yidilianliaotianjiqiao doukeyijianligengqianglianjiedehuati，taruoyoushenmexinshi，danxinyingxiangni，yexubuhuishuo，danshisuizhenimenjiaoliudeshenru，zheizhongyinweijulierchanshengdedanxinhefangbeihuimanmanfangxia，liaotianhuigengjiaqinmiwujian。

 zhenduizheitiaojianyi，wogerenjuede，yidiqinglvshuangfang，zuohaozijideshenghuojianshe，rangzijideshenghuogengjiayouneirongheshendu。paokaipingshidexuhanwennuanbusuan，yigeyuezheizhongjiaoxindepinlvbuyaochaoguo2ci，yinweijinglishixuyaoshijianquqinshentiyande，gushishixuyaoduijide。

3、提供情绪价值，凸显和他在一起的差别

 woyougetongxue，meicijucanaatadouhuiguyibubaqianhaiwo，douyaowoqucuicaishuozijiwangle，gangxiangqilai，youyiciwojiubuxiangcuitale，jieguotahaizhenjiubujile，zhenkou。xiangqiyiqianwojiabaobaoganggenworenshineihui，bitaqiangduole。buguanshinanshengnvsheng，zaiganqingzhong，douxiwangzijishiduifangshengminglizuitebiede，dangwomentongguoyuyandebiaodaqutuxianduifangdedutedeshihou，zheijiushitigongqingxujiazhideyizhong。

 dangduifangduiniyouqingxushangdeqidaihexuqiudeshihou，tongguohuayuqumanzuduifangdezheizhongqingxuqidaihexuqiu，bianshitigongqingxujiazhi。

类似的还有：

 dangduifangganjuegongzuobijiaopibeideshihou，womenkeyishuo：wosheyoudenanpengyou，gongzuohuiquleile，jiuzhijiejitafagexinxishuojintianyoudianlei，xianshuile。erwodenanpengyoujishihenleihaihuipeiwoliaohuitian，wozhendejuedehaoxingfu~yaobunihaishixianxiuxiba。

4、制定共同计划，增强双方连接

 yidiliandeqinglvwufaxiangputongqinglvyiyangyuedingjinwanquchidacan，zhoumoqukandianying，xiabanqupashan，suoyihenduoshihouhulvelegongtongzhidingjihuahemubiaodezhongyaoxing，qishizhengshiyoulezheixiexiaoxiaode“gongtongyueding”，qinglvshuangfangcaiyouleweibicigengjiajijijinqudemubiaogan。

duiyu yidilian deqinglvlaishuo，keyichangshi:

yuedingxiayicijianmiandeshijian

jihuabijiaozhangdejiaqiyiqichuyou

jihuayiqikanyibudianyingfenxiangganshou

jihuadutongyibenshujiaoliujingyan......

 zheixiejihuarangwomenzaizuozheixieshideshihouxiangqiduifang，zaimangliudegongzuoshenghuozhongyoulekeyiqipandemubiao，rangliaotianyoulegengduodelianjie。

 zhuyi：wohualehenzhangdepianfujianglelilidegushi，tamenmeiyoufenshou，yemeiyouhenjiliedemaodunhezhengchao，zheikanshangqushiyiduankenengmeiyoushenme“dawenti”de yidilian ，danzheishibenwendehexin。

 womenzaitantaodeshi“ruheliaochuhaoganqing”，qiantishizheiduanganqingdenongduheshuangfangdeguanxibenshenmeiyoutaidadewenti，biexiangzhezheishihoukeyitongguoliaotianlaijiejuewenti。

 duiyuchuyuyidideqinglvlaishuo，julibushiwenti，yongyouaidenenglicaishiguanjian。xuehuiqiadaohaochudibiaoda、jianshehaozijideshenghuohebicigongtongdeshenghuomubiao，cainengrangguanxizhangjiudiliangxingfazhan。