相亲之后如何让关系升级

 zuijinjialijiwojieshaoleyigexiangqinduixiang，yikaishiwomengongtonghuatihegongtongaihaodoubijiaoduo，meitiantayehuizhudongzhaowoliaotian，danzuijinliangtiandeliaotianganjuewomendegongtonghuatiyoudianshaole，qingwenruheyu xiangqin duixiangshengjiguanxicaibijiaohaoni?

一、情感问题咨询： 相亲 如何让关系升级?

 lengda，nihao，zuijinjialijiwojieshaoleyigexiangqinduixiang，shigeitnan，congzuijinyiduanshijianliaotianlaikan，womengongtonghuatihegongtongaihaodoubijiaoduo，meitiantayehuizhudongzhaowoliaotian，ganjuetaduiwoyemanyouhaogande，danjiushihaimeitichujianmian。

 zuijinliangtiandeliaotianganjuewomendegongtonghuatiyoudianshaole，buzhidaoshiwomenbicideqingxubugaohaishizenyang。ruhenengrangwomenguanxinenggoushangshengni?woxiangyaogentajianmiankankan。

二、花镇导师回答：如何与 相亲 对象升级关系?

niwen：“(zaiciqingkuangxia)ruhenengrangwomendeguanxishangsheng?”

 woxiang，nishouxianyaogaoqingchuyijianshi：duifangduiniqueshiyouhaogan，danshibingmeiyoudadaoaidechengdu，zhishaocishicikeshizheiyangde。

neime，ruguoxiangyaotishengduifanghenizhijiandeguanxi，niyaobawolianggeyuanze：

1、nanrenhenvrenzhijiandeguanxishifenjieduande。

 nvrendouzhinenggouzuozheigejieduanzhineideshengji，erzaijieduanyujieduanzhijiandeshengjishibuyinggaiyounvrenquzuode。biru，ruguonihetahaizhishipengyou，nikeyihetatanlundianying，huozhetiyiyiqichuquwan，yicijinxingyuehui;danshinibugaihetashuo“yaobu，womenzuonannvpengyouba”。yinweizheijiubianchengdaozhuile。

 tongli，ruherangguanxishengji？nihetaxianzaizhishiliaoweixinhaimeiyoujianguomian，ruguocishiniduitashuo“woxiangjianni”，zheijiubianchenglenidaozhuita。suoyi，nixianzaikeyijixuhetaliaotian，zuiduonikeyijiduifangyigeanshixingdebiaoshu：

“aiya，womenliangdoumeiyoujianguomian，wohaoxianghaibushihenlejieni。”

ruguonizheiyangbiaodahouduifanghaimeiyouzhudongyuenidehua，neiniyeyinggaishiquyidianle。（ ）

2、yongyuanbuyaoxiangxinyigerenhuizhendemangdaohuiwuxiagujitaren，mangzhishidaibiaozheigerenbingbuzhongyao。

 meigerendeshijiandouyouxian，douzhiyou24xiaoshi，meigerendouhenmang。tabuyuanyijianni，zhishidaibiaoniduiyutaderenshenglaijiang，meiyouneimezhongyao。

 suoyi，qianwanbuyaojiyigerende“mangliudaowuxiayuzijijianmian”zhaozhuru“tashizuohulianwanggongzuode，tahenmang”dejiekou，bijingneixieriliwanjideren，buhaishihuihuashijianqujianzijixiangjianderenma?

zheigeshijieshangmeiyou“mang”，“mang”zhishibuzhongyaodedaimingci。renqingzijideweizhi，shizuizhongyaode。