2017年十二星座女生脱单指南（一）

　　nanyouhenxihuanzijizenmefenshou，mianduiyigenanyouchenmizishendeqingkuang，fenshouchengweileyizhongbaituo。dangnanyouduizishenguoduoqingqing，bulunshichuziyukezhiyuwanghuoshiqianquesirenkongjian，zheizhongguanxihenyoukenengyuelaiyuemeishenmesuiyihepinghengxiediao。fenshounenggoushiweilefangzhizishen，weilenengzaicizhaodaozijideduliziyousuiyi。zheishiyigejiannandejueze，danshitashiduizijizunzhongyuguanai。

　　困惑和纠结：如何跟一个对于我万般倾心的男友分手

　　nanyouhenxihuanzijizenmefenshou，fenshou，zheishiyigetongchuerbixudexuanze。danshi，zaiwomianduiyigejiweixihuanzijidenanyou，zheigexuanzebiandeyuelaiyuefuzaerkunhuo。budebushensishulv，zenyangzaibaohuhaozijideyucitongshi，jiejuezheiyiguofenyilaihechenmizhijiandeguanxi。

　　1. 探索心里真实体验：从迷茫中寻找胆量

　　mianduifenshou，shouxianyaoshencengciduizijidexiangfakaizhansikao。haowuyiwen，tihuidaolingyifangduizishenshenchendeaihechimishiyizhongmeihaodeganjue，neiruguoneizhongganjuechengweilefudanjushu，neimejiuxuyaosikaozheiduanganqingshifoujiankanghepinghengxiediao。zaizheiguochengzhong，womenxuyaoyingyongmianduixinlizhenshiganjue，ranhouzhaodaofenshoujuexinyuxinnian。

　　2. 交流和会话：跟他真诚我心中的困惑

　　zaifenshouyiqian，yunanyoujinxingjiaoliuhehuihuashishifenzhongyaode。zhongjiu，taduiyushiwoshenhouganqingyuguzhi，shiwozerengentazhenchengwoxinzhongdekunhuohefenshoudejuece。genjuzhenzhidehuihua，yexuwomennengzhaodaoyizhongdegongshiyulijie，jinliangbimiansunhaibingdandingdiwanbizheiduanganqing。

　　3. 设置个人边界：复建自已的独立与自由

　　fenshouhou，fujiangerenbianjieshihenzhongyaode。nanyouduiwoguoduoqingqingbiranhuidaozhiwofangzongziji，yinerwomenxuyaozhongshizishenduliyuziyou。zhuyaobaokuozaicifazhanqushigerenaihao，suzaozishenrenjijiaowangguanxi，jiqichuangjianjiankangdeshenghuoshenghuoxiguanxing。genjushezhiqingchudegerenbianjie，wojiangkeyigoujianqiyigegengweipinghenghejiankangdeshenghuoshenghuo。

　　4. 寻找适用与关怀：不孤独面对分手的考验

　　mianduifenshou，bulunshijingshencengmiandetongchuhuoshishenghuodebianhua，womendouyinggaixunzhaoshiyongyuguanhuai。bulunshihejiaren、haopengyouhuoshijishuzhuanyexinlixuezixunshigoutongjiaoliu，tadeaiyupeibanshiyongjianghuichengweidajiabaituofenshoujiongjingdenengliang。qingtuhejiaoliuzijidexiangfa，yekeyihuanjietongchubingbangwomennenggougenghaodimianduijianglaideshenghuo。

　　5. 向前推进：从头开始属于自己生活

　　fenshoujinguantongchu，danshiyeshiyigexindekaishi。zaiwanchengzheiyiduanchenmiyuyikaodeguanlianhou，wojianghaiyoujihuizhongxinsikaozishendexuqiuhemubiao，congtoukaishishuyuzijishenghuo。bulunshigerentisheng、gongzuofazhanhuoshitanxunyifenshenxinjiankangjunhengdequanxinguanlian，wojiangyiyujianqiangjijidexintai，xiangqiantuijin，zaojiuguishuyuzijideaiqing。

　　nanyouhenxihuanzijizenmefenshou，zaimianduinanyouguoduoxihuanshangzijishi，fenshoujinguankunhuohedanxin，danshiwomenyinggaijiangzijideaiqingyuziyoubaizaishouwei。genjushensishulv、zhenchenggoutongjiaoliu、shezhigerenbianjie，womenkeyijiejueguofenyilaidezhigu，zhongshishuyuzijiduliyuziyou，bingxiangzhegengmeihaodemingtianmairu。