青春年华不再，我该如何挽回老公？

　　nanpengyoushengqishuofenshoushizhendema？zheizhongqingkuangkunraozhehenduoqinglv。dangnanpengyoushengqishi，takendinghuiweixieyaofenshou，rangnvyoumihuobujie。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womengairuhelejienanyoudebiaoshu？jiushitazhenxiangfenshou，haishizhishiyishichongdong？yexuneizhishitachangshizheileifangshibiaoshutadebumanyiheyihan。zhenduinvyoueryan，zhongdianzaiyuzhenshigoutongyulejie，bianyujiejuewenti。yiner，dajiabuhuiqingyijiangnanyouqifenshibiaoshidehuazhende，ershiyinggaigenjugoutongjiaoliulailejieshenhoudeqingxuhedongyin。neiyangcainengzuodaozhenzhengjiejuewenti，weichiaidepingwen。

　　nanpengyoushengqishuofenshoushizhendema？

　　renjijiaowangzhongnanyibimianhuichuxianyixiemocazhengzhi，erzaizheigechongtuzhong，youshihounanyoukenengqingxuguojideshuochufenshoudehua。zhenduinvyoueryan，zheifanhuahaowuyiwenhuirangduifangkunhuobuyihenanguo，tajiukaishiyiweitashibushihenrenzhen。danshi，womenyinggailizhisikaozheiyangdeqingkuangxiadezhuduogailv。

　　情绪化观点

　　zaireqinggaozhangshi，dajiadeyanyutongchangbuwenhebujingguosisuo，nanyouqifenshuofenshouyexuzhishiyizhongqingxufaxiedefangshi，tabingbushizhenzhengdexuyaowanbiguanlian。zheishihou，nvyoukeyishizhedandingdihetagoutongjiaoliu，tanxunwentidebenzhi，weijiejuemaodunxunzhaogengjiahaodefangshi。

　　用意引发关注与思考

　　youshihounanyoudouhuixuanzeyongfenshouzuoweiyizhongfangshi，changshizaochengnvyoudeguanzhubingyinfatasikao。zheijiuyiweizhetaxiangyaotongguozheizhongyanyulaiwentidebiyaoxing，rangnvyoulejietaxinlidekunraoyuxuqiu。nvyoukeyishizhelingtingtadezhenshitiyan，binggongtongtanxunjiejuewentidefangfa。

　　试着把握主动权

　　yixienanyouhenyoukenengqifenshuofenshoujiushiweilezaiguanxilibawogengduozhudongquan。tamenxiwangnengduinvyoushiya，congerdadaozijidemubiao。danbingbudaibiaotazhendexiangfenshou，ershiyizhongzhengzhidouzhengdefangshi。nvyouyaoquedingyuanzehedixian，buhuibeitadeweixiesuoyingxiang，jianchizijidebiaozhunyuxuqiu。

　　回避问题与责任

　　youshihounanyouwangwanghuixuanzegenjushuofenshoulaihuibiwentiyuzeren。tamenbuganmianduipingjingwenti，yinciyongfenshouzuoweiyizhongduobidefangshi。nvyoukeyichangshiyindaotamenmianduikunnan，yitongtanxunjiejuefangan，tigaobicizhijianderentongheshiminggan。

　　极为重要的真实存在沟通与理解

　　buguannanyouqifenshuofenshoushiyinweishenme，zhenshigoutongyulejiequanshijiejuewentideguanjiansuozai。nvyouyingdangxunwennanyoutadezhenshitiyan，qinfenjiechutadeneixindegulvhedanyou。bicidouyingshizhehuanweisikaoyixia，lejieduifangdeyaoqiuheqidai，yigoujiangengweilaoguyujiankangzhijiandeguanxi。

　　nanpengyoushengqishuofenshoushizhendema，dangmianduinanyouqifenshuofenshoushi，nvyouyingdangbaochilixing，bingbubiqingyixiangxinbierentashuodehua。ershiyongshencengcidejiaoliuyulijie，yiqixunzhaojiejuewentidejuejiafangshi。jinyouzhenqiedimianduikunnan，caikeyixiezhubicinenggougenghaodichengzhangyufazhanqushi，weichiaidewendingxinghexingfukuaile。