情感咨询：男友约炮，我应该原谅他吗？

　　nanrentidejiafenshouyaohongma，nanrenwangwangtichujiafenshou，shijiyuduinvrendechaogaoheguanai。zheizhongzuofabingbushizhenshifenshouyongyi，gengshiweilerangnvrenjuedebeiguanzhuheqipan。nanrenyishidaoletongguogezhongchuhuyiliaodefangshi，nenggoujifanvrendeqingxutiyan，shitamengengweizhenxiduifangdeganqing。zheiyibiaomiandefenshou，shijishinanrenshizheyiyizhongteshudefangfabiaodazijiganqing，bingyongzheizhongfangshilaijiaqiangliangrenxianghuzhijiandeguanxi。nanrenzizhi，hongnvrenyoushibingbushixuqingjiayi，ershiyizhongduiganqingdeguanaiyuweihu。

　　nanrenzaiganqingzhongshichanghuixuanzeyongjiafenshoulaihongnvren，jiangzheizhongchuhuyiliaodefangshizuoweishifangchulaiganqingheweixiguanxidexingshi。zheizhongxingweisuirankanqilaixuqingjiayi，danshijishangjiushichuziyuzhenxinshiyiheguanai。jiexialaijiangtaolunnanrentichujiafenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinyijishijiyiyi，jiqinvrenduiyucishifanyingyuchuli。

　　追寻高度重视与关爱

　　nanrentidejiafenshouyaohongma，nanrentichujiafenshoudongjizhiyishiweilejinvrenjuedezijidebiyaoxing，duiganqingjinxingguanai。youshi，nvrenyoukenengzaiganqingzhongyuelaiyuejianguaibuguai，hulvelenanrenfuchudenuliheguanai。genjutichujiafenshou，nanrenxiwangkeyigouqinvrendeguannian，shitamenzaicizhenxiduifangdeganqing。zheizhongzuofabudanshidedaonvrengengduoguanzhuheguanai，tongshiyoushinanrenbenshenbiaodaaiyiyizhongfangshi。

　　激起共情力

　　jiafenshoudeyanyitexingkeyijifachubicizhijiandeqingxutiyan，rangtamengengzhenshibiaodachuzijideqingxuyuxuqiu。youshi，xuduorenzaipingfandeshenghuozhongfeichangrongyiyuelaiyuefamahejianguaibuguai。nanrentichujiafenshou，genjudecijichuhuyiliaodefangfa，keyigouqibicixinlingshenchudegongqingli，rangliangrenzaicitihuidaoxianghuzhijiandeaigensinian。neiyangdeqingjieshezhirangganqingyuelaiyueyufajilieyuzhenshi，zaicitixinglebiciyaogengzhenxiduifangdechuxian。

　　考验和处理

　　dangnvrenhuozhinanrentichujiafenshouhou，yehuishoudaohendadechongjikunhuo。tamenhenyoukenenghuixianrushenshendihuaiyihetongchudangzhong，buzhidaogairuheduiyuzheiyangdechangjing。danshi，zhenduijingmingdenvreneryan，tamennengdongdechulijiejuezheizhongjushi。tamenhuilengjingfenxi，bingchangshilejienanrendeyongyihedongyin。zaihudongjiaoliudeguochengdangzhong，nvrennenggougenghaodelejienanrendetiyan，jiqiliangrenjiandeneixinqinggan。genjuchulijiafenshousuodailaidefumianyingxiang，liangrendeganqingyenengdedaogengjinyibudetigaoheqianghua。

　　爱的证明和成长

　　zhenduinanrenlaijiang，tichujiafenshouyeshiyizhongduiaidezhengming。zheizhongzuofashuomingnanrenzaiyinvrendetiyan，bingyuanyifuzhunulilaiweichizheiyiduanganqing。jiafenshoudeshezhikeyirangliangrenzaiduidaikunhuohechongtuzhongyiqichengzhang，binggengjiandingbicizhijianjuexin。jingliguojiafenshouhou，liangrenzhijiangoujianqiderenkeyulijieyekeyigengjiangu，weijinhoudeganqingzhangjiudaxiajichu。

　　nanrentidejiafenshouyaohongma，jiafenshouyebushiweileqipian，gengshiweilejifazhenshiqingganyuduiganqingdezhenxi。nanrentichujiafenshouyaohongnvren，shiweilejitamengengweirenshidaozijidebiyaoxing，yijiduiyuganqingfuchudenuli。yucitongshi，nvrendangmianduizheizhongjumianshi，yeyaodongdejiejueyulijie，yituidongliangrenjiandechengzhangyutisheng。zuihou，jiafenshoujianghuichengweiliangrenganqinglideyiduanguanjianzhuiyi，rangtamengengjiandingdimianxiangweilai。