做了第三者怎么办

从来没有想过，我会成为自己很讨厌的那种人—第三者。我一不贪钱，二不想破坏别人的家庭，只是觉得自己很傻，现在不知道怎么办，怎么在这场可笑的爱情闹剧中全身而退。花镇情感导师又会有什么分析解读呢？

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