冷爱原创：女生遇到陌生人搭讪交往怎么办

咨询者基础条件：

nv，20sui，165cm/50kg，sichuanchengdouren，benkedaerzaiduxuesheng。

情况： yudaomoshengrendashanbingjiaowang，chulian，haipabeiduanze。

问题： nvshengyudaomoshengrendashanjiaowangzenmeban？ruhepanduanduifangshifoukaopu，chulianyinggairuhebiaoxian？

详细咨询：

 lengailaoshinihao，yigeyueqian，wozailushangyudaoyigenanrengenwodashan，huliulianxifangshibingduocijiaoliuhou，womenzaibangeyueqianquedingguanxibingjiaowang。ta175cm，weipang，jinnian24sui，tongshisichuanchengdouren，zaiguangzhougongzuodanxuyaojingchanglaisichuanchucha。tayizhishuoyigeyueqiandashanwoshitadiyicidashan，xihuanwozheizhongzhamaweideqingxinnvsheng。huihuaqiansongwoliwu，liaotianyepinfandoushitazhudong，tigonghengaodeqingxujiazhi，yizhikuawomeilishanliangyouqizhi。womeiyoutanguolianai，shichulian，zhidaotaganghejiaowanglehaojiuniandeqiannvyoufenshoule，qianyishiwoganjuezijigaopanta，lvezibei。

见面约会有时候听到他满嘴甜言蜜语我会觉得很不自在，也不知道怎么样回应。我害怕自己被短择，想知道想我这样遇到陌生人搭讪交往的该怎么办？怎样判断对方是否靠谱？初恋应该如何表现？

花镇情感导师冷爱分析：

 yibanlaishuo，dangouzhidenanrendoushibijiaoshaozhudongdashanmoshengrende，yinweitamenhuijiaolvjinzhang，yaojingguozhangshijianzhuanmendexunlianhemonizhihoucainenggoukefu。suoyianlikaitounvshengshibeimoshengnanrendashanwoshibutaikanhaode，haiyoutapingshiduinidezhudong、kuazan、songlizhileidezhongzhongbiaoxian，keyikanchutabingbutaixiangshigedangouzhidezhuanyinanren。

 haiyouyidian，anlizhongdenanrensuiranyeshisichuanchengdouren，danshigongzuodidianzaiguangzhou，muqianlaishuoshiyidilian，nishuo“woqianyishiwoganjuezijigaopanta，lvezibei”，zheiqishishinizijizhijueqidongdeyizhongziwobaohujizhi，anshiniqishinigentamuqianbingbuheshi。suoyizonghezheixieyinsu，niyudaodezheigemoshengrendashanjiaowangzanshihaishibutaikaopude。

 nishuozheishichulian，buzhidaozenmebiaoxian，qishinishouxianyinggainongmingbainixiangyaodeshiyizhongshenmeyangdechulian。zheiyeshitanlianaizhiqianmeigenvshengdouyinggaiqukaolv：nidaodixiangyongyouyiduanshenmeyangdeaiqing，tanengbunengjini。

 xianzainiqishihainianqing，nishuopataduanze，neimexianzaidefangfajiushiguibifengxian，jinlianglazhangshijianqulejietaherenshita，zuohaoziwobaohu，neimezheiqijianruguotashoubulemohe，jiuhuilikai，zheiyangbuyaoyeba；ruguozaimoheqijiantaduinichanshenggengduogengnonghouganqing，neimeduanzeyenengbianzhangze。