情感咨询：女人如何hold住布男，防止男友出轨？

　　nanrenxiangfenshoudesangezhengzhao，dangyigenanrenxuyaowanbiyiduanganqingshi，yibanhuiyousangexianzhudeqianzhao。zhuyaobaokuoqingxushengshu，tamenyexubiandelengmohuoshiduibicideguanzhujiangdi；xingweifanying，tamenyexuzhujianbianderongyifanu、butaixihuanqinjinhuoshitanxunjianju；yeyouyancianshizhe，tamenyexuzhujiantijifenshou、xunwenguanyuweilaidenantihuoshiriyijianshaoyancidetianmi。nanrenxiangfenshoudeneisangeyuzhaoyeshixuyaomiqiexizhiguanchalingtingde，bianyulijifuzhuxingdonghuoxunzhaojiejuefangan，fangzhiganqingdejieshu。

　　迹象一：情绪生疏

　　nanrenxiangfenshoudesangezhengzhao，dangyiduanganqingmaixiangfenshoubianyanshi，nanrenshichanghuizhanshichuqingxushengshudejixiang。bingbuyiweizhetamenyibuguanzhulingyifang，fanershimanmanjianshaoleganqingdebiaoshuheguanaidexingwei。tamenyexubiandelengmo，buhuizaijijiguanzhutarendeshenghuoyuxuqiu。shouji、duanxiaoxigongzuopinlvyerongyichuxianjiangdi，huifubiandechihuanhuoshimeiyouneimejiqing。manmandi，tamenduiganqinglakaijuli，buhuizairenzhenquweichi。

　　zheileiqingxushengshudeqianzhaoyibanbuhuiyicuerjiu，fanershimanmanjidian。nanrenkenengduiqinjingandaopijuan，meileguoquderechenqipan。tamenyexubiandebuxihuanyongbao、jiewenhuozheyiqizuolangmandeshi。tamengengqingxiangyulakaijuli，fangzhiguoduqinmijiechu，zheiyushizhetamenduiyuganqingtaiduheyaoqiuzaoyichuxianlegaibian。

　　迹象二：行为反应

　　nanrenxuyaofenshoushi，haizidexingweihuichuxianxianzhugenggai。yikaishi，takenenghuibianderongyifanu，duiyuxiaoshierjiaolvbuan。pingrilirouheyouhaodetamenhuranbiandeqingxubuwending，henrongyibeidadonghejiaoxiao。shitamenneixinshenchudewentibumanyizaiwaimianbiandezhuyaobiaoxian，tamenduiganqingzhongdenantijuedeshiwangheyihuo。

　　chucizhiwai，nanrenkenengtanxundujukongjianheshijian，raokaiheduifangzhijiandehudong。takenenghuigengweipinfandechumenhuoshijiabanjiadian，yifangzhihuidaojialiyingduiganqingdekunrao。tamenyeyoukenengzhujianyuhaoyou、pengyouhuojiarenweichigengduolianluo，xunzhaoyizhongduobiyuzhichidexingshi。zheizhongzuofagenggaishinanrenxinliduifenshoudeyizhongjixiang，jiushitamenchangshizhenshiziwopinghenghebaituodexingshi。

　　迹象三：言辞暗示着

　　jieshuyiduanganqingbushiyicuerjiudequeding，nanrenkeyitongguoyancianshizhelaimanmanbiaoshubierendexiangfayuxinliqiangliebuman。tamenyexuzhujiantaolunfenshoutaolundehuati，mingquetichuguanyuweilaidegulvhedanxin。zheiyinggaishi“dajiashihebushihezaiyiqi？”、“nimenyoumeiyouxiangguoweilaideshenghuo？”dengwentidefasheng。

　　ciwai，nanrenhenyoukenengriyijianshaoduibicidehuayanqiaoyuhebiaodaaiyipinci。tadeyancimanmanbiandeshengshu、lengmo，shenzhiyoudeshihoukenengwuyishideshanghaitaren。shitamenchangshizaijingshenshangheduifangbaituodeyizhongbiaoxian，genjuyancishangdebianhualaianshizhetamenduiyugenggaiguanlianqingkuangdexiangfa。

　　关键点汇总：

　　- nanrenxiangfenshoutongchangbiaoxianchuqingxushengshudejixiang，jiangdiguanhuaihebiaoshiaiyi。

　　- haizidexingweikeyigaibian，biandeqingxubuwending，xunzhaodujukongjianheshijian。

　　- nanrenkeyitongguoyancianshizheyixiang，taolunfenshouhuatitaolunhuojianshaoduibicidehuayanqiaoyu。

　　nanrenxiangfenshoudesangezhengzhao，nvshizaiguanzhudaozheigejixiangshi，xuyaojishilingtinghejiaoliu，jinkuailejiezijidexinlixiangfa，yifangzhiganqingchixufazhandewufawanhui。