老师原创：怀孕时和老公关系恶化如何改善

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网友情感咨询：

智慧的花镇，我已婚一年，刚发现怀孕一个多月。近期本身单位事情多，心烦，加上怀孕情绪化，就 希望休息日在家能放松心情，结果婆婆仍旧带着大姑姐来家住 （zhiqianyejingchangzhoumopopodaidagujielaiwojiazhu），yincishihelaogongdachao。

老公认为对家人好是他的底线，我认为没有谁家大姑姐是没事就住弟弟家的 。houyinweinaodelihai，wogonggongzhidaole，shuoshitadecuotajixiangbanfa，suanshijiejuezheijianshile。

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