老师原创：婚后老公仍然泡夜店怎么办

网友情感咨询：

花镇，我结婚已经要到4年了，老公28岁，179cm.80KG,我，160CM，58KG，C杯。 婚前我们关系不怎么好，准备分手时结果意外怀孕了，然后我们就结婚了  ，shenglexiaohaiguohoutaduiwohenhao，yexushishengxiaohaideshihouwochilehenduoku，xiaohaizaochanbaotaiyigeyueshunchanshengde，danshitaxianzaihaishiouerquyedianshuaranhouliuyixieqitanvrendedianhua。beiwozhidaoguo2ci，danshixianzaiwodoubuzenmeyinweizheigewentihetachaojia。danshiyoushihaishihuirenbuzhuhetachaojia，yichaojiawojiuhuishuolihun，xiaohaiwobuyaozhineidehua。yexushiwodepiqitaibaozaole，suoyiyizhiyilaitadoububajingjidaquanjiaojiwo。suoyiwoxinliyizhibushufu。kuangqiexiaohaiyeshiwomamazaidai。jinnianwomenlaoshichaojia，danshitayizhidoushuohenaiwohewojianver！huazhenwoxiangwenyixiashibushiwodewenti！

花镇情感导师花镇回复：

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