情感问答：家庭束缚太多，人就不能为自己活着吗？

　　chaojiafenshoulezenmehehao，dangliangrenzaiyichangjiliedezhengchaozhihouxuanzefenshou，zenyangfujianbicizhijianderenkeheguanxibianchengyixiangzhongyaodemeirirenwu。suiranzaichaojiadeyishunjiankenenghuijuedechuliwentihaoxianggenbenbukeneng，danhehaoshikenengde。guanjianshibicibixupingjingxialai，tanchengdigoutongbicizhijiandetiyanyuxuqiu，xunzhaodegongshibingrangbu。chucizhiwai，lejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou，biaoshiqianyihekuanrong，jiqigongtongfendouhuajiemaodunyeshifeichangzhongyaodeyaosu。genjuzheixienuli，jibianshizaichaojiahou，liangrenhaiyoujihuixiufutigaolianggerendeganqing。

　　建立新的沟通，化解矛盾

　　chaojiafenshoulezenmehehao，fenshoushiyichangchaojiazuizhongdejieju，danzheibingbudaibiaohehaoyaoyaowuqi。weilenengxiubupoliedeguanlian，jianlixindegoutongshizhiguanzhongyaodeyibu。zaipingjingxialaiyihou，biciyingdangxunzhaoyigeshiyishijianhedidian，zuoxiatanrandibiaoshubicizhijiandetiyanyuxuqiu。genjulingtingduifangjianjie，womenkeyigenghaodilejieduifangguandian，congerjiangdiwujiehemaodun。yucitongshi，yeyaodongdegaoxiaodibiaodazijijianyi，fangzhigongjinenglideyuyanhexintai。tongguokaifangerjingpeidegoutong，shuangfangkeyimanmanhuajiemaodun，xunzhaoxiangtongdian，bingqieweihehaodaxiajichu。

　　拉近关系和原谅

　　zaichaojiafenshouhou，henkenenghuichuxianxianghuzhijiandexinrenqueshi。keshi，yaozhongjianxinrenshifeichangbiyaode，zheixuyaoshuangfangyitongfuzhunuli。guanjianshiweichichengxinhetouming。chengrenzijidecuowubingjiduifangzhiqianshizhuyaodediyibu。yucitongshi，yaoduibicideganshouhexiangfaweichibijiaomingan，bingzhanshichuduibicidelijiehezunzhong。yongzheizhongfangshi，dajiakeyizengjiabicizhijianderenke，zhujianxiufufenshouqiandeqingxujiben。

　　从以前学习培训，规划人生

　　chaojiafenshoushiyigejingyanjiaoxun，womenkeyicongzheidangzhongjiqujingyanjiaoxun，gaishantamendexingwei。sikaozaochengchaojiafashengdeyuanyin，sisuozijideyanxinghebuheshi，jiqiruheyouxiaojiejueleisiqingkuang。yucitongshi，yaozhidingyixieyitongguizezunxunyuanze，yifangzhijianglaidemaodunhemaodun。zhuyaobaokuoxianghulijie、lingtingbicizhijiandexuyao、xunzhaodegongshideng。genjuquelizhengtiguihuayumubiao，womenkeyiweigengjiajiankangguanlianjieshuixingzhou。

　　寻求专业支持和鼓励

　　youshi，chulichaojiasuodaozhidefenshoukenenghaixuyaogenghaodezhichiheguli。jiaruchaojiashenghuozhongdemaodunchixucunzai，bicibunengzijichuli，keyixuanzezixunxinlixuezhuanjiahuofufukangfushidezhichi。tamennenggouweidajiajiyuzhonglidejianjieyujiqiao，bangzhunimengenghaodilejiebicizhijian，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。jishuzhuanyexiezhubudankeyitigonglexindejiaodu，hainengweidajiajiyugongjufangfa，yitishengnidegoutonghehudongxingshi。

　　承诺和不断努力

　　hehaobingbushiyicuerjiudequanguocheng，xuyaoshuangfangchengnuohebuduannuli。guanjianshiyaobaochinaixinyulijie，buduanheduifanggoutongheshangyi，tanxunyitongjiejuefangan。zheiyexuyaojieshouxianshi，renjiguanxizhongnanmianyoufenqiyucuozhe，danzhiyaowomenzhongxindexiwanghehao，jiukeyizhanshengkunnan，zaicigoujianqixingfuerjiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。

　　chaojiafenshoulezenmehehao，zaijinglilechaojiafenshouhou，hehaobingbushiyijianjiandandeshiqing，danshitongguojianlixindegoutong、lajinguanxi、congyiqianxuexipeixun、xunqiuzhuanyezhichiheguli，jiqibuduannulihechengnuo，womenkeyimanmanxiubupoliedeguanlian，ranqiaidehuoyan。hehaoshiyiduanmanzhanglumian，danshitahenzhideweizhinuli。