花镇精选：如何跟布男相处？

　　fenshouhouhuiyizhihuijianmianzenmebannansheng？zaifenshouhouhaijingchangyujianqianren，nanshengmenjingchanggandaobushufuhedanyou。danshi，yudaozheiyangdeqingkuang，nanshengmenyaocaiquyixiejijidexintaihexingdonglaihuanjieganga。zuixian，baochilengjinghelijieduifangdejuece，bubibiaoxianchuleguodufumiandeqingxuhuoduobi。cizhi，heqianrenbaochishidangdejianju，jianshaobubiyaodechupeng，yifangyinqigengduojiufenanjian。chucizhiwai，xunqiujingshenshangdedalizhichihekaizhanziwodiaojieyeshifeichangzhongyaode。genjuzixunfuwu、jiaohaodejiaopengyouyupeiyangyigexindegerenaihao，nanshengmenkezhongshibenrendexinxinhemanzugan。zuizhongyaodeshi，xiangxinshizhangkeyizhiyuyiqie，wangjiguoqu，jiangmuguangzhuanxiangjianglai，xunqiuxindeaihejiyu。

　　应对总会见面的女朋友，男生们如何应对

　　1. 保持冷静和尊重

　　fenshouhouhuiyizhihuijianmianzenmebannansheng，fenshouhoubuduanyujianqianren，nanshengmentongchanghuigandaobushufuhedanyou。yizhongjijidexintaishibaochilengjinghelijieduifangdejuece。bubibiaoxianchulefumiandeqingxuhuoduobi，fanguolai，yingyizouxiangchengshubianchenggenghaodezijiweizhuyaomubiao。zheijiangbangzhunanshengmenjiejuezheizhonggangadejianmianjushi。

　　2. 保持适当的间距

　　weilefangzhigengduojiufenanjian，nanshengmenbixuheqianrenbaochishidangdejianju。jianshaobubiyaodejiechuheguoduqinmideguanxigerenxingwei。zheileixingweiyouzhuyuxiaochumaodun、jianshaoyingxiang，bingqiezaifenshouhoubaochiyizhongjiankangdeshenghuoguanlian。yucitongshi，heqianrenlakaijuliyeyouliyunanshengmennenggougenghaodixuehuisikao、diaozhengqingxuhezaidingweizishen。

　　3. 寻求精神上的适用

　　yingduifenshouhoupinfandijianmian，nanshengmenkenenggandaojusanghedanyou。cike，xunqiujingshenshangdeshiyongshifeichangzhongyaode。genjuyuqinyouqingtu、hezhuanyexinlixuezixunshigoutongjiaoliu，nanshengmenkeyishifangxinlideyalihexintai，dedaojianshexingtiyiyuzhichi。zheileishiyongjiangbangzhunanshengmennenggougenghaodiyingduifenshouhouhuijianmiandejushi。

　　4. 开展自我调节

　　fenshouhoujingchangjianmiandeqingxingxia，nanshengmennengtongguokaizhanziwodiaojielaimiandui。suzaoyigexindegerenaihao、chupengxinpengyoushejiaoquan、canyuxiuxianhuodong，jiangyouzhuyunanshengmenzhongshibenrendexinxinhemanzugan。yucitongshi，genjuxuexiyuchengzhang，nanshengmenyaotishenggerennengliyumeili，zhongxinsuzaozishenxingxiang，congergenghaodiyingduifenshouhoudejianmianjushi。

　　5. 相信时间的疗愈力

　　zuizhongyaodeshi，nanshengmenqingxiangxinshijianliaoyuli。fenshouhoujingchangjianmiankenenghuishinanshengmenxincunbuganxinyukunhuo，danshijiannengjianjiandidanhuazheizhongqingxu。manmanjienayiwang，wangjiguoqu，bingjiangmuguangzhuanxiangjianglaishishifenzhongyaode。jianxinzijipeideshanggengqiangdeaiyujihui，xiangxinweilailangsonghuidaijinigengmeihaoderenheshi。zhixunaixindedengdai，anxinqutiyanrichangshenghuo。

　　汇总：

　　fenshouhouhuiyizhihuijianmianzenmebannansheng，fenshouhoujingchangjianmianduinanshengeryankenengshiyizhongkaoyan，danyeshiyizhongjiyu。genjubaochilengjinghezunzhong、baochishidangdejianju、xunqiujingshenshangdeshiyong、kaizhanziwodiaojiehexiangxinshijiandeliaoyuli，nanshengmenyaogenghaodiyingduizheiyangdeshiqing。zuizhongyaodeshixiangxinniziji，xunzhaozijideaiqing，bingxiangqiantuijin。