fenshouhoujinanpengyoufaxinxibuhui,shijishangshiyigeziwobaohudegerenxingwei。zheileiwuhuiyinghuoxushiduilishiguanliandeyizhongjieshu,yizhongyouyizhizaochulaideshuligan。ruguotadaibiaoledajiabuyuanyizaibeishanghai,buyuanyizaishenxianneiyigebeishangdexunhuanxitong,jiuxuanzelechenmowuyan。yexu,yeshiwomenjizijizhaodaoyifenbaituohesuixinsuoyudefangfa,rangwomennenggoucongtoukaishi,weizijideaiqingerhuozhe。
fenshouhoudechenmowuyan:sangshiniudaidewuyingoutongjiaoliu
表述的必要性
zaiyiduanganqingzhong,goutongjiaoliushiweixiguanxideqiaoliang。buguanshihuayanqiaoyuhuoshizhengzhi,doushiweijiqiqingxudegongming。danshi,dangfenkaibianchengweiyidexuanzeshi,qingxufuzahuaershenru。fenshouhoujinanpengyoufaxinxibuhui,yexuyiweizhezhexuduowufayanshuodexintaiyutongku。
隐含的心理状态
fenshouhouzhuanglongzuoyakenengshiyizhongziwobaohudefangfa。zheileiwuhuiyingbujinshiduiyiwanglianxidejieshu,gengshiyizhongbaohuhaozijidefangfa。tayiweizhedajiabuyuanyizaibeishanghai,buyuanyizaishenxianneiyigebeishangdexunhuanxitong。wuhuiyingdeshuju,chengweilewomenzaicikaiqixinshenghuodeyidaomen。
分歧交错
danshi,fenshouhoudechenmowuyanyexubingbushizhenzhengdebaituo。shenmaizangzaixindideqingxuhehuiyi,yiranhuifuxianzaiyanqian。chenmowuyanshidesixu,yexushiduiguoqudehuailian,huoshiduiweilaibuquedingxing。zheizhongmaodundexinxu,cushiwuhuiyingdeshujuxiandegengjiabaogui、gengjiajuyouyuyi。
自身复建
fenshouhoujinanpengyoufaxinxibuhuiyekenengshiweilenengzishenfujianduli。dangzheizhongquedingbuzaiyilaiduifanghuiyingshi,rangwomenyiqilaizhaodaozijideneizaideliliang。zheizhongziwozhongjiandequanguocheng,kenengshitongkuermanzhang,dantahaiweiwomendailailejiyu,yizhanxindemianmaozhenshishenfenzhanshiziji,shenzhichengweigengyouzixinheneixinqiangdaderen。
重新定义关联
fenshouhoudechenmowuyan,yexushiweilezhongxindingyicongqiandeguanlian。tongguozhudonglakaijuli,womenjiangyaoyiwangdeshangtonghebuyuepaozhinaohou,erburangtahexinwomenderichangshenghuo。zheileizhongxindingyijiyulewomenzhongxinkaishideyongqi,bangwomenxiangzhegengjiajiankanghejijidefangxiangqianjin。
沟通的意义
suiranfenshouhoujinanpengyoufaxinxibuhuikenengshiyizhongziwobaohudexingwei,dangoutongjiaoliuyijiushichuliwentihetuidongxianghuxinrendeyigezhongyaofangshi。lizhidizuoxia,tanrandibiaodazijideganshouyuxuqiu,yexukeyiweiliangrenzaiwanbiganqingyihouzhaodaoyizhongdiaojiehedegongshi。
结束语
fenshouhoujinanpengyoufaxinxibuhui,yexuwuyinquepojuyuyi。zheishiqingxu、qinmiwujianhefenlidejiaocuo,shixiangnian、fujianhezhongxindingyideyigeguocheng。buguanchenmobeihouyinzangzheruhexinlizhuangtai,zuizhuyaodeshidangmianduiqingganwentishizhaodaoshuyuzijidepinghenghesuiyi,weiweilaidexingfuerfendou。
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