情感问答：情商低到爆 男生要怎样跟心仪女生聊天？

　　fenshouhoufengkuangfadongtaidenanren，zaishiquaideyucitongshi，haoxiangyeshiquzijidelixing。tamenyiyilianchuandedongtaixing，qingtuzheneixindefanzahetongku，changshibawozhuqiannvyoudeliuyi。tamenkenengjiushiyinweijieshoubulefenshouzheiyishishi，huoyinduiaiqingdeguzhiernanyishihuai。danshi，zheileifengkuanggerenxingweiwangwangzhinengjinyibulakailitamenjianxingjianyuanderen。zheizhongnanren，bixuxuehuimianduiheshifangneixindetongku，cainengzuodaozhenzhengzhujianxunmizijideaiqing。

　　fenshouhoufengkuangfadongtaidenanren

　　chongdonggerenxingweibeihouyinzangdeqingxutongku

　　寻找关注和发泄

　　dangnanrenmenzaoshoushilianlezheiyixintongdeshijishi，youderenhuixuanzetongguowanmingfadongtaidefangshilaibiaodazishenneixindetongkuhebuman。tamenxiangyaonengyinqiqiannvyoudeguanxin，shitamenhuitouxunshizishenyiyan，huoyuzishenzaicilianluo。zheizhongxingweijishiduiganqingdeyikao，yeshiyizhongfaxieneixinqingganshangdefangfa。danshi，zheizhongzuofatongchangzhihuibalingyifangtuigenggaogengyuan，qianghualetamenneixindejuewangyugudu。

　　精神上的接受不了

　　fenshouduiyumeigerenlaishuodoushiyicibenkuihewaishang。eryixienanrenhenyoukenenggengjiananyijieshouzheigeshishi，tamenjuedebeiru、zizunshoushanghai，bingqieyeshiquzijidezhangkonggan。weilehuanjieneixindetongku，tamenbianyifenshouhouwanmingfadongtaidefangshiqushifangqingxu。danshi，zheizhishiyizhongduanzanxingdexuanxie，hennanzhenzhengjianqingtamendexinliyali。tayinggaixuehuimianduihejieshoufenshouzheiyishishi，cainengzhongxinzhaodaoshuyuzijidejunheng。

　　执着和难以释怀

　　youyixienanrenzaifenshouhouwufashihuai，duiairendeaiqingrengrancunzai，yizhinanyiwangji。tamenxiangbiaoxianzijirengranguanjian，qidainenggouzhongxinwanliushiqudeaiqing。yiner，tamenhuibuduandifadongtai，changshizaiqiannanyoushenghuozhizhongxunzhaozijicunzaigan。danshi，zheileiguzhibudangaibianbulefenshouzheiyishishi，haihuinengrangduifangduitamengengjiayanjuanheshengshu。wangjiguoqu，zaicimianduitiaozhan，jiushitamenbixuxuexidekecheng。

　　真真正正应对内心的痛苦

　　zheizhongfenshouhoufengkuangfadongtaidenanrenmenyinggaiyishidaole，haizidexingweizhinengjinyibulakailitamenjianxingjianyuanderen。danzhenzhengnenggoubangzhutamenbaituotongkude，shizhimianzijineixindeshangtonghebuman。tamenkeyixunqiushidudefangshiquxuanxieqingxu，ruqingtujiqinpenghaoyoujizhuanyexinlixuezixunshi。zaizheiguochengzhong，tamenbixujieshoufenshoudeshiji，bingweizijiyiduanshijianlaizhishanghezhongxinpeiyangzixin。

　　寻觅幸福的开始

　　fenshoubingbudengyuwanbi，fanershiyigexindekaishi。zheizhongnanrenmenbixuxuehuifangqiyiwangdeyinmai，congtoukaishitamenzijishenghuo。tayinggaijijizhudongdizhaodaoxindeganqingjiyu，suzaogerenxingquaihao，zhongshizijidexingfu。zhiyouzaitamenzhenzhengshifangchuduiyuguoqudezhizheyutongku，caikeyiyinglaiweilaidexingfu。rangyiwangdekuangredongtaixingliudaoyiwang，zhongxindingyiziji，xiangyongxindeqidian。

　　buguanjingliguoduomedetongkudefenshou，renherendoukeyicongzheidangzhongxiqujiaoxun，buduanjinbuhewanshanziji。fenshouhoufengkuangfadongtaidenanrenmenxuyaomingbai，zhenzhengdekuailebingbushiqujueyubierendeguanzhuhuifu，fanershilaiyuanyuziyideneixinmanzuheziwojiazhidejiandingbuyi。zhiyouxianwangjiguoqu，cainengzhongxinzhujianzijidejingli。