导师精选：你所认为的闺蜜好朋友可能只是单方面的

　　fenshouhoufulianyouduanlianzenmeban，dangliangrenzaifenshouhouzaicijianlilianxi，haoxiangaiqingdefulianrangrenhuailiqidai。danshi，dangyigefulianzaiduduanlianshi，womenyexujuedemiwang。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womenyinggailizhidikandai。womenkeyixiancongzijichufa，sikaowomendexingweishibushiguoduyilailingyifang，shifouyaoduozhongfangshilaitianbukongque。ranhou，womenkeyishizhezaicijianlilianxi，danxuyaoxiaoxinbuyaotaiguoyujiji，jibiciyixieshijianyukongjian。zuizhong，womenxuyaoduijieluntiqianzuohaozhunbei，bulunshifujianyouqinghuoshijienafenlichulai，douxuyaozunzhongduifangdetiaoxuan。fenshouhoufulianzaiyiciduanlian，womenyinggaixuehuifangqi，jixuqianxing。

　　应对分手后复联再一次断联应怎么看待

　　fenshouhoufulianyouduanlianzenmeban，yi、lizhijieshouxianshi

　　zaijinglifenshouhoudefulian，youmianlinduanliandekunjingshi，womenshouxianxuyaolizhijieshouxianshi。bubiguofenjieduduifanggerenxingwei，yebuyaoguoduxiwangfuliankeyizhangjiu。jieshouxianshi，shizijijingxiaxinlai，bubichenjinyuwujincaicehebeishangzhong。

　　看清现实，宁静自身

　　er、shenshizijidexingweibiaoxianqingxu

　　womenkeyifanshengzijizaifulianguochengdexingweibiaoxianqinggantouru。shibushiguoduyilailingyifang，shibushitaiguoqidaifulianhuidailaishenmezhuanbian？zhenduitamendexingweiyuqingganzuochulixingpingding，buyaohushizishenwentihexuyaogaijindedifang。zheiyangkeyibangzhudajianenggougenghaodidiaozhenghaozijidexintaiyuqidai。

　　反省自己，调整情绪

　　san、baochishidangdeweizhiheziwoduli

　　dangmianduifulianduanliandeqingxingxia，baochishidangdejianjushifeichangzhongyaode。jibiciyixieshijianyukongjian，buyaoguofenzhuiqiuhuojiuchanbuqing。yucitongshi，womenyeyinggaipeiyangzijizijuexing，bubiguofenyilailingyifanglaimibujingshencengmiandequekou。genjufazhanxingquaihao、fujianjiaojiquandengxingshi，rangzijibiandegengjiaduliheyouqu。

　　拉开距离，自立自强

　　si、changshizaicijianlilianxi

　　suiranfulianduanlianhenyoukenenglingrenbuan，danwomenkeyichangshizaicijianlilianxi。danshi，zaizheiguochengzhong，yingzhuyibuyaotaiguoyujiji，jibiciyixieshijianyukongjianqusikao。nengtongguoqingsongyukuaidefangfajinxingxianliao，fenxiangyixiegongtongyuyan，danbuyaoguofenqixusheqiu。

　　试着再次联络，轻松自然

　　wu、zunzhongduifangdetiaoxuanqueding

　　buguanfulianshifujianyouqinghuoshijienafenlichulai，womendouyinggaizunzhongduifangdetiaoxuanqueding。zhiyaoduifangtiaoxuanzaiyiciduanlian，womenyaomianduixianshi，erqiebiebaoyuanhuodanxin。lijieduifangdejuece，tongshihaiyaozhongshizijidexiangfa，jixuqianxing。

　　重视确定，继续前行

　　liu、xuehuifangqi，xiangqiantuijin

　　yingduifenshouhoufulianzaiyiciduanlian，womenyinggaixuehuifangqi，erqiejijizhudongdixiangqianmairu。renshengdaoluzhongyouxuduomeihaoshiwudengdaiwomenqutanxunheganshou，genjupeiyangzijibenzhihuodeganhejijidexintai，dajiakeyigenghaodemianduikunjing，quyingjiedequanxinhenyoukeneng。

　　放下过往，迎来新很有可能

　　fenshouhoufulianyouduanlianzenmeban，buguanfulianshibushizaiyiciduanlian，womennenggoucongzheidangzhongxuedaoyixiezhenguidejingyanjiaoxun。fenshouhoudefulianbuguoshirenshengzhongdeyixiaobufen，dajiayinggaiguanzhugengguangkuodeshijie，zhongxinzhenzuo，yinglaigengmeihaodeweilai。