女人是不是只能做依靠男人的金丝雀

 wogennanyoushitongshi，liangrenshishangxiajiguanxi，tadejibiebiwogao，zhengdeqianyebiwoduo，changchanggenwoshuozhengqiandeshiqingbuyongwocaoxin，quanbujiaojitajiukeyile。zheizaijiejiemeimeideyanlikanlaishitebiehaodeshiqing，keshizaiwokanlai，queshiyouxieshangzizundexinsuanle。

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老师的回复：

 wojuedenidewentitebiejishou，yinweiruguoniwenlebiedeqingganzhuanjia，tamenkenenghuigaosuni“nvrenyeyaoyouzijideshiye”“nijiuyinggaicizhi，qukaigedian，tixianzijidejiazhi”，zheishiwoquannibuyaocizhijiushizhengzhibuzhengquele。ruguoquannicizhidehua，niyoukenenghuizaicizhizhihouguodefeichangjiannan，shenzhiyoukenenghuiweihaidaonidehunyinernibuzizhi。suoyiwoyebuzhidaojutiyaojiniyigeshenmeyangdejianyi。

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 dangyigenanrenyuanyibaohunideshihou，nibuyuanyijieshou，neimeduinimendehunyinjiangfeichangbuli。xiwangwohenishuolezheimeduo，ninengrenzhendikaolv，shenzhongdizuojueding。

 zuihouweilezhengzhizhengque，wohaishiyaoguanmiantanghuangdishuoyixiawoduinidejianyi：meigerendouyouzhuiqiuzijidemengxiangdequanli，nixiangquzuodeshiqingruguobuqushishi，zenmezhidaoxingbuxingni？nianqingrenjiushiyinggaiduoduotiaozhanziji，haikuotiankong，xiangzhenixiangqudefangxiangchufaba。

ps ：我有一件事情特别好奇，等到你有了钱之后，你身边的人还用“ xxx 的媳妇”称呼你，你该怎么办啊？离婚走起？