如何识别并摆脱暧昧不清的关系

 wozuijinyudaoguojigenansheng（bushitongyishijian），douzhishiweixinchunwenziliaotian，jihumeitianbiliao，yougezhongliaobuwandehuati，houlaifaxianjianjianqidaiduifangfalaidexinxi，bingxingchengyizhongyilai，jishishigongzuoxianxia，aimeiyizhizaibuduanshengji。

 wentijiuzaiyu，shuangfangdoumeiyouzhudongyuebicichuqu，suiranliaotianzhiqiandoushijianguode，kejiusuanshuoyaozaicijianmian，yebudingxiagejutideshijiandidian。kewozongjuedechunweixinwenziliaotianguaiguaide，bijingxianshangxianxiahaishiyouqubiede。qiuwenlengdage，zheishiyinweishuangfangdoumeineimexihuanbicima？wobuzhidaogairuhepanbieduifangdexihuanchengdu，huozhe，yougairuhebaituozheizhongaimeibuqingdewenziliaotian。

 zuijingenyigenanshengliaodetinghaode，talaizisanxianchengshi，zhongdiangaoxiaobenshuo，zaierxianshenghuigongzuo，xiaowoyisui；wo，bendiren，putongdaxuebenshuo，tongyichengshigongzuo。ruguotahaojiumeihuiwoxinxi，wojiujuedebeidiaozhe，ranhoujiubuxianghuita，keshidangtahuile，jiuyourenbuzhuhuifuta。ketajiushibuzhudongyuewo，woyebuxiangzhudongyueta（nvshengbushibuyinggaizhudongme）。ganjuexianzaiyouxianruleaimeibuqianjindemoshi，wogaizenmebanni？

冷爱的回复：

niwen“wogairuhepanbieduifangdexihuanchengdu，huozhe，yougairuhebaituozheizhongaimeibuqingdewenziliaotian。 ”

 diyi、nidexiankuanghenjiandan，leisizheiyangdeliaotian，zhendeshihaowuyiyi。shuobaile，jiushidajiazaiaimei。nizheibianzhishizailangfeishijiandafaguangyin；erduifangneibianyebushizaitongguoliaotianjinyibulejieni，gengtanbushangrenzhenzhuiqiuni。

 dier、nidedangwuzhijijiushi“baituozheizhongaimeibuqingdewenziliaotian。”fangfahenjiandan：jiangzhongxinfangzaiyuehuishang，erfeiliaotianshang。yidingyaojizhu“shaoliaoweixin，duojianmian。”shenzhidajiadoukeyixiangwocengjingshuode“buliaoweixin，zhijianmian。”weixin，keyizuoweiyigeyaoyuegongjuhuojiaoliugongju，dantajuebunengzuoweishenduliaotiandegongju，yinweitataihaofeishijiantaihaofeijinglile。xiangzheiweitizhushuode“houlaifaxianjianjianqidaiduifangfalaidexinxi，bingxingchengyizhongyilai”zheijiugengjiakelianle。wojuedechufeishishuangfangyijingdachenglenannvpengyouzhileizhangqiguanxidegongshi，neimekeyijiezhuzheiyangdeliaotiangongjujinxingshenrudijiaoliuyijiweihuganqing；erxiangpingchangdezheizhongyifazhangezhongjiaowangguanxiweidaoxiangdejiaoliu，shigenbenmeibiyaojiangshijianlangfeizaizheizhongliaotianshangmian。guniangmen，ruguoyigenanshengzhigenniliaotian，congbuyuenijianmian，neinigenbenbuyongdalita。