冷爱：追求女孩子要用魅力吸引 威胁是没有用的！

　　fenshouhounanhaiziyaojueqingduojiu，fenshouhou，nanhaiziyaojueqingduozhangshijian，shiyigeyouxiyinlidehuatitaolun。zaiaiqingdejieshuyihou，nanhaizishichanghuimianlinyigeqingxudaixiedeyigeguocheng，xuyaoshijianlaizhiyuneixinshenchudewaishang。zheiduanshijianyoushihouduanzanxing，youshihouyouzhang，erjueqingzechengweileyizhongziwobaohudefangfa。bulunshijiri、haoduogeyue，huozhejiuyidian，nanhaiziyidingyaozhaodaozishenfujianzixinxin、xiufuxinlidefangshi。zaizheigeshiqiyexushanghaidaohenduoren，danshitayeshinanhaizigenghaodelejiezishen，zuihouzouchuguoqu，maijingenghaodemingtian。

　　心灵深处的撤离和痊愈

　　fenshouhounanhaiziyaojueqingduojiu，zheizhongqingkuangbaokuolenanhaizizaixinliwanchenghoudexinlijiankangzhuangkuanghexiufuguocheng。fenkaishiyizhongsheqi，ernanhaiziyexuyaoshiyingxindeshenghuofangshi，yijichulixinlidebeishangfennu。zaizheiguochengzhong，tamenwangwangyaojinglixinlingshenchudechelihequanyu，yongyubaohuhaozijihezhaodaoxindefangwei。

　　撤离是自我保护的预兆

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　　时间的流逝并不是绝情的象征

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　　自我反思与个人提升

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　　新的起点和追求幸福

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　　结束语

　　fenshouhounanhaiziyaojueqingduojiushiyigefuzaqiegetihuadequanguocheng。zheibujinshejidaotaduilishiqingganshangdejiejue，haishiguantamenneixindechengzhangyuzhaodaoxindeshenghuoyiyideyigeguocheng。meigerendouyinggaibutongdeshijianlaitaguoneiduanlu，danshizuizhong，dangtamencongtongkulizouchulaishi，huibiandeyuelaiyuewanqiang、wanshan，bingqieweixindexingfugongtongfendou。