离婚潮居高不下 花镇用科学方法挽回婚姻

　　fenshouduojiuhoushihezailianxi，shihenduorenzaiganqinglimianlindewenti。zheizhongqingkuangqianshedaoqinggandeduoyangxinghegerendechabie。zhenduibutongdereneryan，xiufuxintaipinghenghezhongxinguihuashenghuozhongdeshijianzhangduanshibuyiyangde。youderenkenengbixubijiaozhangdeshijianquchulifenshoudeshangtong，erlingyixierenhenyoukenengxiangduijiaokuaidizouzhechuqu。yiner，mingqueshihezhudonglianxideshijianbixuhuiwangbenshenqingganzhuangkuanghebicizhijiandeguanxi，bianyuzuochumingzhidexuanze。

　　shidudeshijianzaiganqinglifahuizhezhongyaodezuoyong。dangliangrenjingliguofenshouhou，zaiciguanliandeshijiantiaoxuanhenguanjian。zheibujinguanxidaogerenqingganqingkuang，yeguanxidaoshuangfangzhijiandeguanxifazhan。neiyang，womenyinggaizenyangquedingshihezhudonglianxideshijianni？yixiashiyixiesikaoyujiejiandeshouce。

　　1. 自我疗愈的时间

　　fenshouduojiuhoushihezailianxi，fenshoushiyizhongqingganchongjixing，tahuiduiwomendexinlihezizunzaochengweihai。yiner，zuixianhuijizijichongzudeshijianlaizhiyu。zheiyishijianduanyousuobutong，yourenkenengbixujigexingqi，yourenkenengbixuhaoduogeyueshenzhiyinian。guanjiandeshi，yaobaozhengnijiuyijingzhongshileta，jingshenshangzishenqiangdalaimianduizaiciguanliandehenyoukeneng。

　　2. 重新审视分手的主要原因

　　zaiquedingheqianrenzaicilianluoyiqian，womenyinggaishendusikaohezhongxinshenshifenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。shiyouyuyishidechongdongerfenshoude，huoshiyagendebuheshi？ruguowentinenggoutongguogoutongziwogaibiandeyijiejue，huoxuzhudonglianxideshijianduanjiudao。neiruguofenshoudeyuanyinshiyinweigenshendigubufuhe，neimekenengbixubijiaozhangdeshijianlaixiaohuahelijiezheigeshishi。

　　3. 彼此之间转变的认识

　　zaijuedingzaiciguanliandeqingkuangxia，womenyinggaibicizhijiandezhuanbianyouyigeqingxiderenshi。dajiahuibansuizheshijiandexiaoshierchengzhangziwogaibian，baohanduidaiaiqingdexintai、shenghuoguandeng。ruguowomennenggoulejiehejienazheizhongbianhua，neiyangzhudonglianxihenyoukenenggengshunli。danshi，zhiyaoduifangbingmeiyoujinglilezhongdadebianhua，erqierengyongyoufenshoushitaiduheyishi，neiyanglinshidefenlikenengshiyigezuijiadexuanze。

　　4. 重新建立友情

　　zaifenshouzhihoudemouyishike，dajiayehuifaxian，heqianrenbianchengyoushandeguanlianbijiaorongyibingqiegengyouyiyubici。zheixuyaoshuangfangdouyijingzuohaoyiqingbielianhechedigaibianbicizhijiannengli。ruguogandaodajiakeyitongguopengyoushenfenbaochilianluo，erqiezheibingbuhuiduizijideqinggandailaikunrao，neiyangheqianrenzaicijianliganqingguanlianjiushiyigebucuodexuanze。

　　5. 外界的干扰要素

　　zaijuedingzaiciguanliandeqingkuangxia，dajiahaiyaokaolvdaowaijiedeganraoyaosu。zheibaokuoqitarendeyijian、shejiaomeitideyingxiangdeng。yidingyaoxuehuizaizishenxinlingshenchuxunqiudaan，qingtingzijideshengyinerfeizaoshouwaijiedeganrao。

　　结束语

　　fenshouduojiuhoushihezailianxi，qianshezherenmenqinggandefenshouhezhongxinlianluoshiyigefuzaernairenxunweidehuatitaolun。shihezhudonglianxideshijianbushiyigegudingshijianduan，fanershigenjugerenjibenqingkuangheganqingfazhanlaijuedingde。guanjiandeshiyaorenzhenduidaizijineixinyaoqiu，binglixingquedingshifouyoubiyaolianluo。buguanniquedingruhezuo，douxiangxinnizijidetiaoxuan，bingweijianglaidexingfukuailejiandingbuyideqianxing。