4000万光棍找不到老婆 中国男女比例严重失衡怎么办？

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　　1. 平心静气

　　fenshoufuhewanhuizenmeliaotian，zaifenshoufuhewanhuideliaotianzhong，shouxianbaochilixingyouyihedexintai。congqiandezhengchaohesunhaiyijingchengweiguoqu，xianzaishishihouyijijidetaiduzhongxinkaiqihuihua。fangzhiqingxuhuayancigongji，yijijidexintaiyingduilingyifang。jiduifangyiduanhuanchongqi，rangbiciqingxujingxiaxinlai，bianyuchuangjianjianshexinghuihua。

　　2. 真诚道歉与心里更改

　　zaifenshoushi，jijijizijicongqiandeguoshidaoqianshihenzhongyaode。genjuzhenzhidedaoqian，biaodazijikuijiuheneijiu，nengrangduifangganshoudaonidechengyi。chukaidaoqian，yexiangyaobiaodazijineixingenggai。mingquegaosulingyifangnijiuyijingyishidaozijidenanti，bingjinglileyixiliedesikaoyufazhan，quebaoyihouhuiduidaiaiqinggengweizhenxi。zheizhongbiaoshunenggoubangzhuduifangkanjiannidechengxinyunuli。

　　3. 修复美好记忆

　　wanhuiaiqingdeliaotianzhong，huiyiyiqiandemeihaohuiyishifeichangzhongyaodeyibu。genjujijizhengmiandeyuyanbiaoda，xiangqiyiqiduguodemeihaohuiyi，gouqibierenxinlingshenchuzuimeihaodehuiyiyuqinggan。nengrangduifangzaiciganshoudaolianggerenzhijiancongqiandexingfuyukuaile，jinermanmanxiaochuyiqianxiaojiqingxudezulan，goujianqixindeqidaiheqianjindequdongli。

　　4. 激励交流和处理问题

　　fenshoufuhewanhuideguochengdangzhong，hezuoshizhiguanzhongyaodeyihuan。bicibixutanchengdigoutongjiaoliu，biaoshubicizhijiandexuyao、guanxinhejianyi，xunzhaowentidebenzhibinggongtongjiejue。tanhuazhongyidingyaobimianpipinghejingong，ershiyonglijiehezunzhongduifangguandian，gongtongfendoutanxunjiejuewentidefangfa。taolunkenengxingdegaishanjianyi，xiangyaotuoxiehetuoxie，weiaiqingdefuhexingyufazhanzaojiuhaodefenwei。

　　5. 给予空间和时间

　　zaifuhexinghewanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，jiyubicizhijianshijianyukongjianfazhanyiyangzhongyao。lijieduifangsirenkongjianyuxuqiu，rangshuangfangyoukonghuishouguoqu、sikaoweilai，bingzuochuzijidejueding。bieqiangqiulingyifangmashangjiena，fanershinaixindedengdai。yucitongshi，yexuyaojiyuzijixiangyaokongjianheshijian，zaiciziliziqiangdijinbuyuchengzhang。

　　fenshoufuhewanhuizenmeliaotian，fenshoufuhewanhuideliaotianbixugenjupingjing、chengxin、meihaojiyi、jiaoliuhechuliwenti、jiyukongjianheshijiandengfangmianzhankai，zhongzhongyinsugongtonggouchengyigenenggouyinfawanhuidehelijiaoliugoutongdeqianti。erzuizhongyaodeshiqieerbushe，zhenxinzhenqingyuyongqiqujienazijideyiwang，jiqiyingzhegengmeihaodeweilai。