冷爱：如何评判婚姻家庭咨询师是否专业?

　　fenshouduanlianhouhaomianzidenanrenzhidianzanbulianxima，fenshouduanlianhou，youyixienanrenweibaochihaomianzi，zhinengtiaoxuanzaishejiaopingtaishangdianzan，quebuhuiqingyilianxiqianren。zheizhongzuofajingchangchuziyuneixinshenchudezibeihezizundekaoliang。tamenhaipazhudongzhaonengbeilingyifangshizuoyilaiherouruo，bingqieyebuganchengrenzijiduiyufenshoudecuobaigan。danshi，zheizhongzuofajinjinyangailezijiduiairendeqingxu，quenanyiconggenbenshangjiejuexinlidekuchu。zhenzhengdechengshunanrenyingdangganyumianduibingjiejuezijideqingxu，erfeiguangpingdianzanbiaodazijidefumianqingxu。

　　fenshouduanlianhou，youyixienanrenhuidaoweichilianmianshangbianfashengmimanghebuyiyangdechulifangfa。tamenwangwanghuixuanzegenjudianzanlaibiaoxianrentongheguanxin，keshibingbuzhudonglianxiqiannanyou。zheizhongzuofashenhouhenyoukenengyouzheduozhongyinsudeyingxiang，biruzizun、zibeixinli、qingxuyayigandeng。danshi，zheizhongxingweishibushizhendekeyimanzutamenyaoweichimianzimudini？

　　心理状态防御机制：回绝伤害躲避方法

　　fenshouduanlianhouhaomianzidenanrenzhidianzanbulianxima，zaifenshoudekuchuhenanguoyihou，youyixienanrendouhuixuanzeduanlian，buhuizaiheqianrenbaochilianluo。zaizheiguochengzhong，genjudianzanlaibiaoxianrenkeheshiyong，nenggoubeishiweiyizhongtaobidexinlizhuangtaifangyujizhi。tamenbuxiangyingduifenshouhouzaicigoujiandebeishanghefuzaqingxu，suoyixuanzejiandanyongdianzandaitizhenshigoutongjiaoliu。zheizhongxingweikeyiyidingchengdushanghuanjietadetongchu，bingbaochiyizhongbiaocengdehaomianzipinpaixingxiang。

　　自尊与男性自我价值的体现

　　duiyuyixienanreneryan，weichihaomianzizhiguanzhongyao。tamenxiwangnengzaifenshouhouzhanshichujianqianghedanduxingxiang，fangzhibeichengzuorouruoheyilai。yiner，taxuanzegenjudianzanlaijianjiedibiaoshuduiairendeguanhuai，yibiaoxianzijidenanshigerenjiazhi。zaitamenxinzhong，zheizhongxingweihenyoukenenghuirangbierenjuedetamenyiranjuyouxiyinliyumeili，jinerweihuzijizizun。

　　掩盖内心深处的失望与没法释放出来的情绪

　　dianzanshiyizhongbiaomiandeguanxin，danquewufaconggenbenshangjiejuefenshouzhihoudeqinggannanti。fenshouduanlianhou，nanrentiaoxuanzhidianzanbulianxibeihou，tongchangyunzangzheneixinshenchudeshiwanghewufashifangchulaideqingxu。tamenhaipazhudongzhaonengbeilingyifangshizuorouruoheyilai，yebuganmianduizijiduiyufenshoudezhenshitiyan。zheizhongzuofazhishiyizhongbiaocengdeyangai，wufarangtamenzhenzhengshifangchulaineixinshenchudetongkuyubeishang，yewufarangtamenbaituofenshouyinying。

　　真正的成熟男人：敢于面对情感与处理事情

　　lianmianbingbudengtongyuzhenzhengdechengshu。yigechengshudenanrenyingdangganyumianduizijideqingxu，bingjijichuliwenti。dianzansuirannengchuansongrenkeheshiyong，dantazhishiyizhongbuzhenshideguanxin，wufadaitizhenshigoutongyujiaoliu。zhenzhideduihuaheqingxingdechulishiqing，cainengbangzhunanrenzhenzhenzhengzhengbaituofenshoudeyinmai，chulijingshenshangdekunhuo，bingzhaodaoquanxindeshenghuo。

　　fenshouduanlianhouhaomianzidenanrenzhidianzanbulianxima，zaifenshouhou，meiyigerenyingduiqingganshangdefangfagujidoubuyiyang。youyixienanrenwangwanghuixuanzezhidianzanbulianxi，chuyuweichilianmian、weihuxinlihuozheqitayingerenyuanyin。danshi，dajiayinggaizhidao，zhenzhengdechengshuhetanchengdejiejueqinggankunhuo，caisuanshichulihebaituofenshoukunjingdezhongyao。jinyouganyumianduizijineixin，cainengzuodaozhenzhengmaijingenghaodeshenghuo，ranhouzhaodaozijideaiqing。